Sugarkane Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Well I was supposed to have a third date with a guy. Last time went really well. We organized to go out again. He seemed so so interested and planned to see a cult movie I wanted to see. I messaged him as I had an errand to do before hand and it would take me at least 45 mins to get there ( a lot of people on this dating site dont live near me). I was really annoyed and never got an answer. Why lead someone on and stand them up? I joined a dating site, yet mist if The guys seem to want one thing and not even date. WTF? I have a life too and have more important things to do than wait around for jerks.
Mallow Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Many people try to avoid confrontation. Instead of being decent, they take the cowardly way out and disappear. Move on, these people aren't worth the negative thoughts! 1
yongyong Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 You are not attractive enough for him. plain and simple. Guys would still meet a girl who is not attractive to him, for the sake of bang. He figured out it's not going to happen or it's not worth his time to see you multiple times and try to reach there. I got this girls # from the club and she let me come over to her house next day. I wasn't attracted to her and I wouldn't take her out but I didn't mind getting laid. Although she invited me to come over to her house at night, she played 'a good girl'. I am not interested in seeing her multiple time to bang her. If I was attracted to her, I don't mind just sitting at coffee shop with her and getting a warm hug afterwards.
Author Sugarkane Posted July 9, 2012 Author Posted July 9, 2012 But that's what we did do last time. We went out for something to eat and did hug at the end.
Author Sugarkane Posted July 9, 2012 Author Posted July 9, 2012 I also wasn't going to sleep with him straight away. I want more than that. I'm suck to death if guys saying they want a relationship, but as soon as you sleep with them, go cold and dump you. Like the last jackass I dated.
Author Sugarkane Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 I'm a but insulted. I'm far from ugly .
Chunky Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 You deserve someone who'll love you. Don't waste another second worrying about this guy. You can do better. 1
without Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I'm a but insulted. I'm far from ugly . Don't take the other user seriously, some people are sad and they want to make you sad. 1
Algermas Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 I also wasn't going to sleep with him straight away. I want more than that. I'm suck to death if guys saying they want a relationship, but as soon as you sleep with them, go cold and dump you. Like the last jackass I dated. What you want is irrelevant, he wanted to get laid you didn't spread your legs and hence he gives no ****s. How hard is this to figure out?
venusianx13 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 There could be a multitude of reasons why he didn't get back to you, and it's likely that it really has nothing to do with you. But it's not your problem, anyway, so just move on and start meeting other men. Don't waste your time worrying about this guy. His flakiness has nothing to do with you. 1
Author Sugarkane Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 What you want is irrelevant, he wanted to get laid you didn't spread your legs and hence he gives no ****s. How hard is this to figure out? And yet if I did sleep with him, then you would be blaming me if I complained that I never saw him again.
Algermas Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 And yet if I did sleep with him, then you would be blaming me if I complained that I never saw him again. It's not my fault women are naturally drawn to men like this.
Curtis24 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Well I was supposed to have a third date with a guy. Last time went really well. We organized to go out again. He seemed so so interested and planned to see a cult movie I wanted to see. I messaged him as I had an errand to do before hand and it would take me at least 45 mins to get there ( a lot of people on this dating site dont live near me). I was really annoyed and never got an answer. Why lead someone on and stand them up? I joined a dating site, yet mist if The guys seem to want one thing and not even date. WTF? I have a life too and have more important things to do than wait around for jerks. Men are vain and lead women on out of instinct...
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