Inky-Dinky Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 I met a man like that online. He was very stupid, though. He talked to me for FOUR hours about how he could not perform. Over, and over and over again. IT wasn't a deal breaker to me. I said I would be okay and we could try different things. But he wouldn't shut up. He talked for FOUR friggin' hours about that and then showed me pictures of his HUMUNGOUS naked stomach...pictures in which he was not even smiling...and then never called back. What a loser.
Fabrizio Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 your missing a very important point here, girls take very personal offence to this especially if its at the very beginning of the R, not being able to get up, in their minds translates as im not hot enough for him, he doesnt find me attractive, its their fault in their minds! but I can tell is a vicious circle: as much as you feel your partner disappointing for your failure, as much you'll have the problem. The best way could be to face your problem together with your partner. Needs a little bit of courage and knowledge of personal limits but it also could be a good way to verify if your companion cares or not.
Radu Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 (edited) I think it would. If he can't even get it up for the girl, why would she want to continue dating him? It's like a girl can't get wet for a you...would you really want to keep seeing her? Wouldn't that be a dead giveaway that she's not really that into you? I realize that erectile disfunction doesn't always have to do with the girl, but if they can't even have sex, then that's not really dating then is it? And yes, it would kill all feelings. I once had strong feelings for a guy, and when we had sex, he had a very small and (sorry) useless penis. I couldn't even look at him after that. I was so disappointed and disheartened. I haven't seen or spoken to him since. He just lost all appeal. You can't compare vaginal dryness with erection problems. If you bitch about the former as a guy, you will get tar and feathered, even though i can think of a nr of reasons for why it is that way even though she many have deep feelings for the guy [emotional and physical reasons]. If you bitch about the latter ... well, i have yet to see a thread where the girl was told to 'work through it if you like the guy' [erection problem]. I once had a friend with that problem. His girlfriend had no uterus and couldn't do it either. It was a match made in heaven. Penis gets inserted in vagina, not uterus. If you meant uterus, that's quite a nasty thing you just said. Edited July 12, 2012 by Radu
paperboy48 Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 What if he can get it up with meds? Has he tried that? Is that deal breaker?
fishtaco Posted July 12, 2012 Posted July 12, 2012 My email account gets spammed with the solution to this all the time. I'm just sayin'.
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