Sweetcandi20 Posted July 6, 2004 Posted July 6, 2004 My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years now. At first we were separated going to different collleges and we hated it. We missed each other, emailed and instant messaged everyday....spend tons of money on phone bills and train tickests. ....so we decided to move in together.......at first it was all planned out and everything sounded great we had pros and cons to everything.....now its just horrible. There was some things we didnt calculate like cleaning, communication, and personal time....I know this is minor stuff we that can get over, but now he wants to go back out of town for school and feels that we are ready to live together. The minor stuff we fight over is....me listening to him on how things should be done * how to raise a three year old, *theres a time and place for everything .....i mean....some of the arguements are overated whereas others, are just stupid!!!! Help i dont want to experience the long distance dating again.....i just want to keep our relationship strong and loving and i want my boyfriend to stay with me!!!!!!!!.....HELP!!!!
Olivia_19742004 Posted July 6, 2004 Posted July 6, 2004 So if the fight is stupid, why are you participating? If you know the topic is pointless why do you continue to fight? It takes two to fight.
Author Sweetcandi20 Posted July 6, 2004 Author Posted July 6, 2004 i am not participating in the arguements its like whatever i say to him starts on...when i say i dont want to fight...then he goes on not talking to me...saying i should listen to him and i dont know what to do i love him and we never use to fight before we moved in together...i sort of feel like my relationship is failing when its not......i dunno...im sad...i just want to be able to talk to him with out all the fights and stuff.....like we use to.
Author Sweetcandi20 Posted July 12, 2004 Author Posted July 12, 2004 Well i wrote him an email, because, i can really express my self well in writing. three four days went by no response...he's been sleeping on the couch not talking to me....and finally he comes up stairs and sees me crying.....He asked what was wrong but i was too choked up to tell him...I know he knows it about the situation....because he knows thats all i talk about.....but i dont want him to stay if he knows that he needs the space but i do.....a little confused here?
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