Author tusharsolanki Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 thanx chi townd... i havent replied anythng to her... i somehow controlled my self... considering what she did to me.. payback through my silence wouldnt hurt... i know i still love her.. i know i still could do anything for her... but theres one thing i think i shoudnt give and thats second chance.. she could do all this again rite? what do you thnk??
Tree_Salmon Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 thanx chi townd... i havent replied anythng to her... i somehow controlled my self... considering what she did to me.. payback through my silence wouldnt hurt... i know i still love her.. i know i still could do anything for her... but theres one thing i think i shoudnt give and thats second chance.. she could do all this again rite? what do you thnk?? I've been at the same spot. Dont answer her. She WILL do it to you again. No matter how much she claims to be sorry or whatever. she just needs you to tell her shes not a bad person so she can forgive herself. this has nothing to do with her being truly sorry. let her dwell in her misery. maybe she'll learn something from it. probably not because allot of these girls are massively self absorbed. but its not your problem. 1
Author tusharsolanki Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 Good job. Dont say anything to her and keep nc. Hang in there. It seems like we both wont get over them ever and i think they'll always remain a part of us. Who knows... Everyday for me is just a day to get over her and it sucks! yeahh.. it really sucks.. and the agony is greater than expected.. she used to be my life man!! and now it has come down to this... the protective instinct struck again when she sent the third text within 2 hrs.. " i am realy very unwell.. please reply somethng.." i almost started typing somethng... but it feels ok now... dats the way realisation will hit her..
Author tusharsolanki Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 I've been at the same spot. Dont answer her. She WILL do it to you again. No matter how much she claims to be sorry or whatever. she just needs you to tell her shes not a bad person so she can forgive herself. this has nothing to do with her being truly sorry. let her dwell in her misery. maybe she'll learn something from it. probably not because allot of these girls are massively self absorbed. but its not your problem. thats the part that really pisses me off and kinda hurts me too... i mean who gave them the right to be damn stone hearted and play with people who have got real hearts??? i guess every guy in my postion just wants two major thngs from these girls and those are realisation and repentance... but these two are the things they seldom show... they continue living their fake lives as if it was all fun for them..
Author tusharsolanki Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 its geting really confusing... sometimes she seems to smile and even laugh with her frends... but sometimes shes seems alone and and really sad about whatever happend... the way she walks around the campus shows that she is really upset.. her three msgs yesterday asking for forgivness are still in my mind... i keep thnkng she wants to come back or somethng.. and is feeling sorry for whatever happend maybe she is aware what she has lost by all dis... i try to avoid looking at her.. but those eyes are hard to forget.. its gonna take some practice i know.. i also know that even if she wants to come back (which i doubt) i shouldnt even consider this cos i dont wana be hurt any more... why do i keep expecting her to try to come back?? i keep thinkng that if i dont reply to her texts she is just gona stop tryng to get back to me, and will eventually forget me.. (and then it hurts).. its getting hard to come to terms that whatever happens - wether she wants to come back or not, wether she realises or not... i just have to move on without her...
Kovalchoke Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 its geting really confusing... sometimes she seems to smile and even laugh with her frends... but sometimes shes seems alone and and really sad about whatever happend... the way she walks around the campus shows that she is really upset.. her three msgs yesterday asking for forgivness are still in my mind... i keep thnkng she wants to come back or somethng.. and is feeling sorry for whatever happend maybe she is aware what she has lost by all dis... i try to avoid looking at her.. but those eyes are hard to forget.. its gonna take some practice i know.. i also know that even if she wants to come back (which i doubt) i shouldnt even consider this cos i dont wana be hurt any more... why do i keep expecting her to try to come back?? i keep thinkng that if i dont reply to her texts she is just gona stop tryng to get back to me, and will eventually forget me.. (and then it hurts).. its getting hard to come to terms that whatever happens - wether she wants to come back or not, wether she realises or not... i just have to move on without her... If she's mad at you then that might indicate she still has feelings, or unresolved issues. But like I said don't overthink anything and this is really wasting your time. Who cares if she wants to come back. She was the one who dumped/cheated on you and she'll need to put her ego/pride aside if she wants to come back. If she does come back, she'll need to redeem herself and learn from her mistakes. But honestly, if I were you, I would tell her "she made her bed and she can lie in it". She will one day realize it, but for now just stop checking up on her and rethinking things. Once you start to forget about all this, is the moment that she'll start realizing.
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