unluckydog Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 so theres this woman i like from my kids school and we seemed to hit it off pretty good abit of flirting and general chatting messages on fb and an invite round to her house.after a 3 weeks of gettin to know each other i went her house and she was complimenting how tall i was and that she can tell i workout and we went pick our kids up from school together an d she tells me message her that night.we talked for afew messages and she tells me we do have alot in common and that she hasnt met someone with a good nature and looking after 2 kids on my own that i was one in a million so i asked her to let me take her out and she said that she just cant see herself in a relationship right now as she only spilt up with her ex 1 month ago and my ex left 3 month ago and she says she wants be friends still get to know each other more.am i being friendzoned here or just give her time and get to know her more and see how things go .i did know that she had come out of a bad relationship as we have some of the same friends.i sent her a message saying when things have calmed down for the both of us i would still like to take u out and she replyed sayin thanks.now we have been talking still is this the best thing to do or just let her be and sort myself out then contact her at a later date?any help would be great thanks
Philosoraptor Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 She's complementing you so that's a good sign. I'm not going to toss you in the friendzone yet as she has a valid point on wanting to take time before hopping into something else. You can either be patient and wait or see what else is out there.
Author unluckydog Posted July 9, 2012 Author Posted July 9, 2012 so would you say that it was ok to still see her or just give her some space?what about the texting would you let that be like a message every now and again?and would it b ok to take her and her kids to the seaside in the school hols or is that just going to freak her out as she says she has a messed up head with her ex.thanks for your insight:)
Philosoraptor Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 Honestly just trust yourself here and do what feels natural. That way no matter what happens you'll have no regrets. I'd keep in contact though and get a feel on her. Pay attention when she talks and how she says it and you'll get all the information you need. 1
Author unluckydog Posted July 10, 2012 Author Posted July 10, 2012 well the kids hols are coming soon and we wont be seeing each other as much and my wife only left me with the two kids three month ago so my confidence is a little rocky.i dont know how i had the balls just go and start talking to her but glad i did.so would you say asking her out as friends to the seaside is ok then?i was with my ex for ten years and just dont seem as confident as i once was how do you go about finding myself again?i recently started thai boxing again which i stopped because my ex hated me doing it and it has helped alot but sometimes when im with this girl im just not sure what to say.
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