What are the differences between something that is going to be short-term/long-term?

[orangedreams]

I was reading a post on here with someone that said when a girl is closed off or "emotionally unavailable" she's damaged and not available for anything serious... So what would the opposite of this be?

 

For example: a girl who can't be honest with you and plays games = definite short-term/hookup

 

same with guys! i want to hear what you think about what makes someone worthy of a fling or something more like a serious relationship..

 

I'm looking for a comparison of the two, side-by-side to see the differences.

[oaks]

I'm looking for a comparison of the two, side-by-side to see the differences.

 

It's whether I think I can really spend my whole life with her, or not. It's a deep-down feeling (or lack of).

 

I don't think there's a manual for relationships, and they don't really lend themselves to that sort of analysis. It's not like buying a car or solving a science problem.

[phineas]

6 months post exclusive.

They last that long they get to meet my kids & I'd consider them long-term potential.

 

But, i've yet to have woman last more than 3.

She either flakes out on me and blows me off or starts acting shady & I have to end it.