Sugarkane Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 This also seems to happen a lot. Especially if they were talking commitment then broke up. Yet somehow get pregnant to someone else they've known 5 minutes. I suppose coming from a strict, conservative family I can't ever imagine my family supporting me if I did that. My dad believes having children out of wedlock is one of the worst things you can do. This is coming from a father who screamed in face the first time I slept with someone and called me a slut and a whore. Even though he had sex before marriage himself. I'm pretty sure if I did this, I'd be cut off and reminded for The rest of my life, how I "ruined our families name". Whet do you think?
Author Sugarkane Posted July 8, 2012 Author Posted July 8, 2012 I mean having a kid with someone you barely know is weird. I thought I knew my ex, but it took almost a year for him to show his true colours. So how can you know someone well if they're just a rebound? I wonder if they regret doing so.
Author Sugarkane Posted February 4, 2013 Author Posted February 4, 2013 I'd really like to know more. How do people get their parents to actually support them in this?
Author Sugarkane Posted February 8, 2013 Author Posted February 8, 2013 How are parents actually happy paying for everything? Example one if my ex co workers.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Why can't I get an answer? Because you are generalizing something that wont have an actual reason or answer. It's just something you are noticing it more. There is no concrete answer because there is no concrete question.
Author Sugarkane Posted February 8, 2013 Author Posted February 8, 2013 Because you are generalizing something that wont have an actual reason or answer. It's just something you are noticing it more. There is no concrete answer because there is no concrete question. The question mainly is why are parents happy when their adult has kids out if wedlock? And don't kick them out?
Mint Sauce Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 Sugarkane, what happened? You seem to experience acute distress over something? You sound very fed up with how your ex's treated you, how your parents treat you, how unfair it all is... Spill it!
Treasa Posted February 8, 2013 Posted February 8, 2013 This also seems to happen a lot. Especially if they were talking commitment then broke up. Yet somehow get pregnant to someone else they've known 5 minutes. I suppose coming from a strict, conservative family I can't ever imagine my family supporting me if I did that. My dad believes having children out of wedlock is one of the worst things you can do. This is coming from a father who screamed in face the first time I slept with someone and called me a slut and a whore. Even though he had sex before marriage himself. I'm pretty sure if I did this, I'd be cut off and reminded for The rest of my life, how I "ruined our families name". Whet do you think? Your issues are with your father, not wth people who are having kids outside of marriage. 1
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