sunlover Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 But i know i cant! Its been 4 days NC. Sad part is i know if i call i'm sure he wouldnt return the call. So i came to LS!
Author sunlover Posted July 8, 2012 Author Posted July 8, 2012 Thanks, just trying to watch a good movie & enjoy the rain
GeeziG Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Stay busy I've been on the go since she left a week ago
Author sunlover Posted July 8, 2012 Author Posted July 8, 2012 I know thats the key. but i barely have any friends where i just moved to.
GeeziG Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 That's even better hop in the car and hit the first bar you see 'll jk where did you move to and from where...
Girlboots Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Yeah, it's hard. It took me a month to get over it. I'm really happy I did. I was miserable...that feeling really does suck, but keep yourself busy.
mike588 Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 But i know i cant! Its been 4 days NC. Sad part is i know if i call i'm sure he wouldnt return the call. So i came to LS! Don't do it!! I went 6 months of no contact after my ex. g/f dumped me..it wasn't easy but it's best for you.
ilikeapplepie Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 But i know i cant! Its been 4 days NC. Sad part is i know if i call i'm sure he wouldnt return the call. So i came to LS! Don't do it, just think that your not alone in your situation.. how many other people in the world are going through NC right now... ****ing loads.. I'm one of them, it's like quitting smoking and your phone is a box of cigarettes sitting in front of you, just don't light one up.. simple as that
Author sunlover Posted July 8, 2012 Author Posted July 8, 2012 Did you guys/girls get closure? I feel like a part of the reason I have temptation to call is for closure. Say things i want to say, hear answers to questions...
ladyabstrused Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Did you guys/girls get closure? I feel like a part of the reason I have temptation to call is for closure. Say things i want to say, hear answers to questions... I tried to get closure when I broke NC. It didn't help. My ex somewhat blamed me and pretty much felt like the victim when really, after talking to people on this site, they feel that I've been in a manipulative and controlling relationship. My ex supposedly got closure from me when we talked on the phone after the break up...but I don't know if I had mine? I try not to think about it. There was a period of time during this NC phase when I kept wondering why..why..why...and now I'm just tired of wondering why because I know that no matter what, my ex will always just blame me for everything that went wrong in our relationship. I gave up looking for answers and just attribute it to just the way it was. I was just too blinded and many other things to see it all in the 4.5 years we had. So, don't break NC. Keep going. Breaking it will only bring more hurt, really. I did it, and I only got more confused, more hurt. Keep yourself occupied, do things to make you feel better. It truly helps. Good luck.
Author sunlover Posted July 8, 2012 Author Posted July 8, 2012 Ughhh he wants to do FWB which is tempting b/c i wouldnt want to see him sleeping with anyone else....but i know better to just sever ties. We broke up in person but i still have so many unanswered questions. He has agreed to meet up some time this week to talk.
ladyabstrused Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Ughhh he wants to do FWB which is tempting b/c i wouldnt want to see him sleeping with anyone else....but i know better to just sever ties.. Yes, glad you know better.
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