k100danny Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 We have been broken up about 4 weeks now and over this time she has contacted me a few times and ive contacted her. About a week ago i told her i wasn's going to be contacting her again. I wished her well ect and said please can you delete me from facebook just so i don't look ( I know i should have done this myself but couldnt bring myself to) anyway she didnt reply and didnt delete me, I havent really looked on her profile since breaking up i think twice but it's almost like i knew i could if i wanted to. Then today I just logged in and realised she is missing from my chat list so i had a check and she was gone. I don't know why but this made me feel sick to my stomach. Just venting so as not to text her.
Tree_Salmon Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 you should have blocked your ex to begin with or delete them off all your stuff. They did you a favor . Use this as your chance to move on. It hurts but its the best 1
big bear Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 If you check my past posts 2 days ago I was ranting about something similar. But you know, I realized she makes it better for me. Now I do not have to be worried about running into her online. Killing myself over her updates or anything. It's right its a favor treat it like one.
Author k100danny Posted July 7, 2012 Author Posted July 7, 2012 Yeah I know you're right. This was the last string to be cut. I didn't check her profile and i had blocked her updates from coming up because I didnt want to see. I was a bit scared to go online sometimes incase she was there so I suppose you are right this makes it easier for me. I think she may be seeing someone now also so maybe she didnt want me to see things I don't know. It seems to have come out of the blue and the reason i say this is she has also cut her phone off, I treid to text and it failed so i tried to call.the reason being is i still have a LOT of her stuff we had said that i would send back to her mum or friends for her and she has a VERY expensive watch of mine that she promised to send back. She is away travelling and I didn't expect her to get in touch or anything but I thought if she was cutting her phone off and deleteing me from facebook a little courtesy message saying something like I have sent your watch back could you please get my stuff back to my mums or something might have come through. I know I shouldnt expect anything but i just think that would have been the decent thing to do. I've always said i dont have hard feelings and want her to be happy and she knows i will make sure her stuff gets back to her.
big bear Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 We all want the same thing, let her be happy this and that. Sadly, they think there happiness is somewhere else. Nothing changes there mind. Set them free. If they come back they are yours and if they don't may be they are doing us a favour.
Author k100danny Posted July 7, 2012 Author Posted July 7, 2012 I totally agree. If she finds happiness somewhere that's great. i wouldn't want to be with someone who wasnt fully happy. I know we were wrong for each other it's just taken me by surprise really. I thought it might happen sooner or later when she wasn't concerned about what i was doing anymore but she has contacted me a few times after some nc and i just expected her to contact me regarding the watch before cutting all contact. I know it seems like the watch i should just let go but this is very special to mme, it was left to me when someone passed away and is expensive, it means a lot to me that is why i gave it to her to remind her of me while she was away it just didnt work out as planned. I'm sure i will feel a lot better in the morning, i had surgery yesterday so im laid in bed and a bit helpless at the minute so that is probably making it worse. I will send her a message on facebook just a friendly one asking about the watch and making arrangements to get her stuff back to her.
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