LoverOfDance Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 There are two competitions coming up and he's gonna be there(this guy I'm still in the process of getting over because he has a gf). It's fine if I don't go 4 the first competition because I'm not competing. But I think I'm most likely gonna be competing in the next one. If I go that is. This moving on process is really disrupting my life right now and preventing me from doing things I need to be doing. Not sure what to do. If I know what's best 4 me, maybe I shouldn't go to either. What do you guys think?
Author LoverOfDance Posted July 7, 2012 Author Posted July 7, 2012 I'm thinking I shouldn't go because it might ruin all the work I have been doing keeping my distance from him for the past 5 weeks(I think). But at the same time I'm also thinking this avoiding him thing is making me very cautious and careful of where I go. Somehow, it's actually keeping him on my mind instead of keeping him out. I just don't want to care anymore where he goes or where he doesn't go. I don't understand what I did to deserve this. I would do anything 4 my peace of mind right now. That's all I ask 4 - peace of mind.
esteem-jam Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 I partly remember your story, you are attracted to that guy, but he has a GF and wont return the attraction. If you dont go - this does not guarantee that you will be over him. For the first event- I think you dont have to communicate with him at all, just sit in the audience and watch the performances. Would be good to have a friend to go with there. On the other hand, if you have hope for a Rel. with him in future... imagine how it will seem to His current GF: we were dancing there and she (you) was sitting there watching us. Will make him look like a cowardly cheater, or planner, liar. Dunno. I wish I had a < correct > advice for you.
Author LoverOfDance Posted July 7, 2012 Author Posted July 7, 2012 I partly remember your story, you are attracted to that guy, but he has a GF and wont return the attraction. If you dont go - this does not guarantee that you will be over him. For the first event- I think you dont have to communicate with him at all, just sit in the audience and watch the performances. Would be good to have a friend to go with there. On the other hand, if you have hope for a Rel. with him in future... imagine how it will seem to His current GF: we were dancing there and she (you) was sitting there watching us. Will make him look like a cowardly cheater, or planner, liar. Dunno. I wish I had a < correct > advice for you. It just seems a bit weird to me right now to think about being with him because I haven't spoken to him in a while. The more I'm away from him, the more of a stranger he's becoming to me. I think I'll always love him as a friend but I really just need him to get out of my mind right now so I can move on with my life. I want to 4get him. That's all I want right now. Seeing him at the competitions might not be good 4 me and I can't help feeling like this whole thing is just silly. How can my entire life come to a complete stand still because of one person. It doesn't make sense. I don't understand why this feels complicated. I feel like it shouldn't be as complicated as it is *sigh*.
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