Rey619 Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 (edited) Hello all... I've been married to my wife for about 6 years now. Yesterday we went out to eat. Earlier that day she wanted to go to Sea World. It happened to be later in the day and one of those days where I just wanted to relax. I had just got off work, traffic, yada yada yada. So I wasn't in the mood to go anywhere. We did go out to eat and she brings up the Sea World thing. She says, "I wanna go to Sea World sometime before our yearly passes expire." It is still July and they don't expire till the end of December. She starts saying I don't ever want to go. I told her that she is always working and that's pretty much why it seems like that. She works 7 days a week. She gets off late at night. On her free time she shops and buys all kinds of miscellaneous stuff, even if our money ain't right at the time. So the day she wants to go, I didn't wanna go to be honest. I was too tired. So she says we aren't compatible. Then she hops out the car and goes into the restaurant with our son. I'm still barely getting out of the car. I'm like WTF in my head. So we aren't talking at this point. She makes me feel like crap at times. I love her so much. It just seems like she is not satisfied anymore with me and she wants to do better. I read her posts on her and they are bullcrap about me. She just doesn't believe me about stuff and I think it's because I caught her in several lies. She works 7 days a week most of the time and she is not there when I'm in the area. She barely see's our son to tuck him in at night and her co workers have a big influence on her and she tries to dress all nice now when she goes to work. There have been times I drive by her job when I'm in the area and don't see my other car there. I question her about not being at work and she flips out and turns the tables on me about wasting gas on driving by her work. She opens up credit cards under her name without me knowing. I question her about her spending a 100 here and there. She complains when I spend 20 bucks. Wow. It's like one obstacle over the other. I know I can do better, and she probably can too. I don't want to divorce and start over. It's like when we are getting along, it's seems like the best marriage. Any advice or help is highly appreciated. Edited July 7, 2012 by Rey619
Philosoraptor Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 I think the two of you need to work on figuring out a plan of action together. You need to find a compromise that makes the both of you happy. It sounds like she wants what she wants and throws a tantrum when she doesn't get her way. 1
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