Pof has not failed me THIS time!

[zanesfan]

Im feeling good. I started talking to this educated, well mannered, no kids having, never been married, 6'1" fellow. We talked for a week and met last night and we really hit it off.

 

Now normally I find everything I dont like about someone to convince myself not to date them. However this was totally different. We bowled for a good 2 hours, we went to this place called the Boardwalk--we walked and talked for 2 hours. We held hands and we hugged. He wasnt talking about sex, didnt invite me over to his house. He was genuine and I didnt sense ANY red flags. He was a perfect gentleman.

 

Now I have been reading alot about men paying for dates and whatnot. He did pay for bowling and offered to take me to get something to eat but I declined. When should I start chipping in? I want to make things fair (because I do like him).

[phineas]

NB4 horde of angry manlets focusing on "6'1" descends on thread & OP. :lmao:

 

 

OP, just start with offering to buy one thing. Like he pays for movie & you pay for popcorn & pop or something like that.

[oaks]

When should I start chipping in? I want to make things fair (because I do like him).

 

Whenever you like. You just have to be forward enough to use phrases like "I'll get this" or "let's split the check" or "how much do I owe" at the end of the meal etc.

 

Well done on finding someone you like.

[FitChick]

The only shocking thing is that she met him on POF.

[mortensorchid]

I agree with FitChick.

[zanesfan]

Yep Im surprised too. We have had 2 dates in less then 10 days. We talk all day. I think I just lucked up! And I sent him the initial message.

[brahmabull117]

that sounds awesome, good luck

[Nicomis]

Congrats! You met somebody on P.O.F. that wasn't a total douche! Quick! Go play the lottery before your mojo wears off!

[dark1san]

P.O.F. is a bad place to meet people online I take it?

 

Where online would you all recommend?