My boyfriend is being distant, !

[JennM789]

So we have been dating a little over two years and up until about 2 months ago things were spicy, fun, fresh, we always had fun we acted like best friends but lovers at the same time. Now out of no where he seems I be distant, and has been talking to quit a few women including some exs. When I asked him why he said it was no biggie and nothing to worry about, well then things got alittle worse...I feel like his roommate now, we live together but he comes home from work eats, watches porn and stays up in the living room texting and lurking on facebook all night until I fall asleep. The other night I snooped and I know it's a horrible thing but I felt I had no choice I didn't find anything bad aside from him talking **** about me to these girls, something along the lines of I'm just tired of her nagging and she is always so negative and is pegging off my friends ( he basically described himself in this text ) I literally have never done any of that and all he does is bitch to me about my friends and everything else. I don't know how to talk about this with him because he is acting like a completely different person, all romance is out the window. Yesterday he admitted to me that he doesn't trust me, yet I have NEVER given him a reason too! I know he is not cheating because we are always with each other and all the time spent these last years together was never a problem before I am just very confused on why he acts like this. I need advice!

[darkmoon]

"I'm just tired of her nagging and she is always so negative and is pegging off my friends" OP i hate to say it, but my advice is be better company for him than this, or dump him, he's gone off you atmo

[orangedreams]

i'd say your options are either: a) change to be positive and accepting of him more (don't nag him or suggest things he could do differently) or you could b)leave and don't look back...depends on how much you've invested in this and see potential for growth..