NewGirlXOXO Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 My boyfriend and I are both 25 and have been together for two years. He's a great guy and treats me really well. However, since day one, I've been extremely attracted to his best friend and I can barely contain myself when he's around me. His best friend has no idea that I'm in love with him. He's the perfect guy - tall, dark, handsome, funny, caring, wealthy AND A VIRGIN (Saving himself for marriage). I find myself getting extremely jealous when his best friend mentions other women. He's so perfect and he doesn't even know it. His abs, his tanned skin, his perfect white teeth with that sexy smile, and those beautiful blue eyes. I wish he knew that I was in love with him. I feel like a giddy teenager every time he comes around. When he talks to me he makes me feel like I'm the only girl in the world. He compliments me and makes me feel so beautiful and special. Yet, he has no idea that I'm in love with him. He's totally clueless. It's getting to the point where I'm beginning to do inappropriate things like asking him for hugs just so I can touch him and be close to him. I find myself staring at him and daydreaming about him all the time. I'm overwhelmed with guilt because my boyfriend doesn't deserve this but I can't help how I feel. In my heart, I feel that my boyfriend isn't the right guy for me but his best friend is. I've been slowly losing feelings for my boyfriend over the past year but my feelings for his best friend get stronger and stronger as time goes on. I don't know what to do. Go after the man I truly love and break my boyfriend's heart.. or break up with my boyfriend and walk away from it all and always wonder "What if?"
darkmoon Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 if this guy is in love with you, you'll know all about it, wait, see he'd hug you back ++
Cracker Jack Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Break up with your boyfriend. No point in being a relationship when you're clearly not into him. It's just a waste of time. 1
Citizen Erased Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 1. Break up with your boyfriend. 2. Most guys won't screw around with their best friend's girl. 3. The ones that do are jerks. 1
Gulf-Delta Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 Ending up with his friend wouldn't be a good idea. If he'd betray his friend, he'd betray you too.
veggirl Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 You should break up with your BF regardless of your feelings for his friend because the fact is you just aren't in love with your boyfriend. You should have broken up a year ago when you realized he is not right for you. Remember when you look at his best friend, no one is perfect including him.
Fitz Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 If you won't break up with your boyfriend, then you are a coward. If you pursue the best friend, then you will destroy their friendship. Either way, there is no happy ending to this story. 1
It's Just Me Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 You sound very young, so I know you'll ignore this. Keep your pants on, girl. Oh, and move on.
Chi townD Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 So, you think that if you break up with your boyfriend and then hook up with his BEST FRIEND. He'll understand and all will be right in the universe? Keep dreaming. Thing is, if you make a move on his friend, you are going to destroy their relationship. You are going to make him hate his best friend and you will destroy your boyfriend with this double betrayal. He will hate you and he will hate his former best friend. And I know that "hate" is a strong word, but what's stronger is the amount of pain you will inflict for your own selfish wants. You say that you've lost feelings for your boyfriend, but you won't dare end things with him until you made your feelings know to the friend. Because, if you ended things with your boyfriend now, you'd have no reason to see his best friend as much as you are right now. Do yourself a favor, end things with your boyfriend and don't contact the friend. Just leave them alone and move on.
nofool4u Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 My boyfriend and I are both 25 and have been together for two years. He's a great guy and treats me really well. Great guys finish last, and you are helping to prove that. However, since day one, I've been extremely attracted to his best friend and I can barely contain myself when he's around me. Then break up with your bf. He doesn't deserve a girl that has the hots for another guy, much less his friend. I'm overwhelmed with guilt because my boyfriend doesn't deserve this but I can't help how I feel. In my heart, I feel that my boyfriend isn't the right guy for me but his best friend is. I've been slowly losing feelings for my boyfriend over the past year but my feelings for his best friend get stronger and stronger as time goes on. I don't know what to do. Go after the man I truly love and break my boyfriend's heart.. or break up with my boyfriend and walk away from it all and always wonder "What if?" Break up with your bf before you end up cheating on him. A great guy deserves a great girl. So set him free so he can find someone that will respect him.
nofool4u Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 His best friend must be really hot... And I sense that is all that REALLY matters.
Dreameister Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Break up with your boyfriend. You cannot imagine the pain and hurt experienced due to an affair.
Affliction Shirt Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Okay, there's obviously only one real solution: make your boyfriend disappear and go get some. That's the answer you wanted right?
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