irc333 Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 There's this woman, who is new to our social circle of friends,and happens to be a social butterfly. Attractive (of course) and has the attention of many men (and women, but made some good women friends. I was talking to her and I get to talking about dating, and she said she finds it scary, because she thinks a lot of men in the group are not wanting anything serious. So, she kind of enjoys the attention of men, but I feel I might have to "take a #" to talk to her sometimes at certain parties and events. Any advice here?
january2011 Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Get on with it? irc333, you have so many opportunities to date. You know that it's your own overanalysis that tends to hold you back. Forget that she's a newbie attractive woman. You've already made the first move and managed to get her to let her guard down to divulge a little bit about her fears. Just go for it, ask for her number, call her, arrange a date for just the two of you. See what happens. 3
mario_C Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 Enjoy it for what it is. Don't get your hopes up. Actually, that applies to dating and life in general, but it's very appropriate for this situation here.
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