Aquamelon Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Only 13 days left till I fly out to see him and I feel myself dreading seeing my boyfriend. We haven't seen each other since April. The past month we've had it rough, lots of arguments but things are definitely better now. I think I'm just afraid. It's my first time on a plane as well so that isn't helping. I'll be visiting for 4 days and then we won't see each other again until September. I feel like seeing him again will be amazing, I'm just scared of the aftermath. Having to be at square-one again and missing him every day. Honestly I'm questioning whether or not I'll have the courage to get on that plane and leave him. I just keep thinking to myself, is this worth it? All this constant heartache. I just keep asking myself when will it finally get better Words of wisdom please.
ladyabstrused Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Take it one day at time, Aqua. Don't stress up too much. Sometimes planning too far ahead in the future could bring disappointments. Though forward planning is good still, not too forward in my opinion. So yeah, things may or may not get better but if you guys are good for each other, it will get better eventually. If your constant heartache is from the long distance, you should do something about it if you can. If you can wait out a bit of time before you can be together, then you'll need to have a lot of patience and when it happens, it'll all be worth the wait. It will be hard to leave indeed. But that means you can get excited and look forward to the next time you're meeting again in September. It's not too far away if you think about it. Hope it goes well for you! All the best. 1
LovinCousins Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 If you trust in your SO with your heart and soul there isn't much to worry about with seeing them : ). Send him some bad pictures, he'll still compliment you. Tell him why you are worried, maybe he is too? What were you fighting fight about? Is there trust problems that exist already? P.S. hi lady, hope you are doing well : ) 1
ladyabstrused Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 P.S. hi lady, hope you are doing well : ) Hi LC! *hugs!* It's good to see you on here again. I've been dealing all right. Hope things are well with you too.
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