sunlover Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 I figured this quote might help LS readers in dating.. "Tell everyone you know: “My happiness depends on me, so you’re off the hook.” And then demonstrate it. Be happy, no matter what they’re doing. Practice feeling good, no matter what. And before you know it, you will not give anyone else responsibility for the way you feel — and then, you’ll love them all. Because the only reason you don’t love them, is because you’re using them as your excuse to not feel good. 2
Green Light Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 I figured this quote might help LS readers in dating.. "Tell everyone you know: “My happiness depends on me, so you’re off the hook.” And then demonstrate it. Be happy, no matter what they’re doing. Practice feeling good, no matter what. And before you know it, you will not give anyone else responsibility for the way you feel — and then, you’ll love them all. Because the only reason you don’t love them, is because you’re using them as your excuse to not feel good. The problem is that humans need validation from other humans just as they need food and water. This is not a bad thing. It's just not popular to admit it in this era of "every man/woman is an island."
Author sunlover Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 I dont think it is healthy to be emotionally dependent on our significant others. Each individual should find core happiness within their self. (love yourself before loving others)
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