tatbubba Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 I've been seeing a guy for 9 months, at first everything was wonderful but I recently had to end it for my own health and sanity - he got back with his ex, also I suspect in the last month or so other women involved, didn't seem to care about hurting me at all in the end - This guy was a friend before and his behaviour hurt more because I didn't think he was like that, he wanted to talk first to explain himself but then said it was useless talking because "you have your opinion and I know you won't change it" I told him I felt like he didn't care and had just been taking advantage of me the whole time, he said that made him sad as it wasn't true and there were situations he couldn't explain... bla bla bla. It seems like in the last month he's gone women crazy... right after he told me he really cared about me, he started behaving like this. I do care about him... a lot.... but I don't want a guy who makes me cry all the time! Anyway after he messaged me asking how I was a couple of times, I told him just to leave me alone (via fb) because I want space to put my feelings in order... and I'm not sure we can be friends at least for the moment ( I didn't tell him any of this) and he said fine... yesterday I published a song... he liked the link then emailed me saying he only liked it because it was one of his favourites and he would continue to leave me alone! What does it mean? Should I respond? shall I cancel him from FB?
Kovalchoke Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 This whole facebook thing is starting to get on my nerves...mature people would not use it as a tool to manipulate somebodys feelings...very immature. Just say it to the persons face how you feel. Anyways, i find it ridiculous how he dated you for 9months only to get back with his ex. Either you were a rebound or hes just a crazy womanizer. Best thing you can do is let it go and fix yourself. Maybe he'll realize you were a better partner for him than his ex was.
Ruby65 Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Block him. Later, when you're over him, you can un-block and send him a friend request.... IF you still want to! But really what's the point of ever being friends with an ex on Facebook? It's just giving them another way to communicate with you without having to put much time or effort into it.
g450 Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Exactly. Block him. But why the hell would you befriend somebody that cheated on you? What's the logic behind that?
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