Oncehadluv Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 this started happening about 3 weeks ago, she will call me or text me on e a week, she called today a few times in a row and i didnt pick up is she playing games? is she testing the waters? why would she be consistently contacting me at least once a week? im confused
wilsonx Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Why is my ex calling me after a year? Uhhh ask her instead of posting on an internet forum
Author Oncehadluv Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 Why is my ex calling me after a year? Uhhh ask her instead of posting on an internet forum well for one i dont want to get caught up in a hurt cycle if its just games, im doing relatively ok for the most part but like i said i dont want to re hash the hurt i went through first five months yes im a guy over 30 and yes i do feel and are aware i do have emotions and need to protect them
wilsonx Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 well for one i dont want to get caught up in a hurt cycle if its just games, im doing relatively ok for the most part but like i said i dont want to re hash the hurt i went through first five months yes im a guy over 30 and yes i do feel and are aware i do have emotions and need to protect them LOL......... Really? Grow some balls. Either find out what she wants or ignore them. Dont post on an internet forum and expect Ms Cleo to pop up and give you all the answers
Author Oncehadluv Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 LOL......... Really? Grow some balls. Either find out what she wants or ignore them. Dont post on an internet forum and expect Ms Cleo to pop up and give you all the answers i remeber the turmoil u were going through and posting on here neuroticly, you went from goose to zues posting style in a matter of months..... relax man
Author Oncehadluv Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 Down Wilson! Down! Too much tough love! right!?! he reminds me of a bitter woman who wAs burned and now taking out fury on others
wilsonx Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 (edited) I gave you 2 choices. Ignore or Ask her? The fact that you have to post this question here tells me that your best course should be just to ignore her because you arent ready. Edited July 6, 2012 by wilsonx
Author Oncehadluv Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 I gave you 2 choices. Ignore or Ask her? The fact that you have to post this question here tells me that your best course should be just to ignore her because you arent ready. bingo im in ignore mode via phone.....now to prepare for unexpected pop ups and how to handlle them... if she starts this is all consequences of me being the nice guy
Svet74 Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 her current boyfriend is not working out, so she wants to see if your still available you were good enough, and its always easier to go back to the old. Now if she really wants you back,, she will call and leave a message
Author Oncehadluv Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 her current boyfriend is not working out, so she wants to see if your still available you were good enough, and its always easier to go back to the old. Now if she really wants you back,, she will call and leave a message im still single and working on me, making myself unavailable is what im trying to do @ the same time not "run" like a woose when she pops up sort of speak i have to implement some stratagies in the meantime
Chi townD Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Well, I have to go with Wilson on this one. I mean, its been a year. What the hell does she want. I think that you've done enough reading on here to know what are breadcrumbs and what isn't. And the first sign of breadcrumbs; conversation over. However, if you still have strong feelings for her, then don't answer. Not worth finding out if you are strong enough to handle the breadcrumbs or not.
Sugarkane Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 The problem is trying to find out which one, without giving them a huge ego boost. 1
Author Oncehadluv Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 The problem is trying to find out which one, without giving them a huge ego boost. yep i dont want to give her any type of ego snacks, as as matter of fact im going to find a party girl and let her stay at my place fri-sun im gonna let the angel on my right shoulder take the high card and let the little devil on my left handle this one
wilsonx Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 yep i dont want to give her any type of ego snacks, as as matter of fact im going to find a party girl and let her stay at my place fri-sun im gonna let the angel on my right shoulder take the high card and let the little devil on my left handle this one Right.... I saw this last night. The only person in this thread playing games is you. Shes calling you blowing up your phone constantly. If I really want to "TALK" to someone, that would be the path I choose. Look at your response to the situation. "Im going to get a party girl and let her stay at my place" I know what this is called.
Author Oncehadluv Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 Right.... I saw this last night. The only person in this thread playing games is you. Shes calling you blowing up your phone constantly. If I really want to "TALK" to someone, that would be the path I choose. Look at your response to the situation. "Im going to get a party girl and let her stay at my place" I know what this is called. wilson relax dont put too much stock into the ideas, im just going by the quote in your sig
Author Oncehadluv Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 well just as wilsonx predicted SHE JUST DROPPED IN! the irony is i dont even care as much as i thought or be emotionally affected stage 1 done stage 2 = getting another girl and just living my life i was nervous about how she would view me she even commented on the few new things i have going on i do know and feel that i do not want her back at all her replacement is in the works ( another obstacle for another day)
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