Bucky Badger Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 I really like this girl I met at my university. To jump ahead, I told her that I liked her and thought she was really cool. She told me that she thought I was a great, awesome guy, but that she wasn't looking for anyone {relationship/dating} at the current time. A few days later, I found out that she liked this other guy (we'll call him, guy 1). To make a long story short, guy 1 went around screwing everything that moved, so she got over him pretty quickly, but gave him a chance at a date. Meanwhile, another guy, guy 2, came in and told her that he liked this girl. She said that she didn't really like him, but after guy 1 was out of the picture, she was really contemplating going with guy 2. She has somewhat of a past with guy 2, but now has said that she doesn't like guy 2, because she likes someone else. She likes a different guy after guy 2, now, it's guy 3. I spoke with one of her friends, and she says that she would love to give me an opportunity, but, that seems like it will never happen. Each of these three guys are kinda fake and will eventually end up hurting her. I have always been a friend to her, at least in my opinion, and am always there when she wants to talk. I just don't understand. Any help will be appreciated.
Balzac Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Ok you're a smart guy, presumably at USMadison. Look up the term emotional tampon. The get back to us. 1
Feelsgoodman Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 I spoke with one of her friends, and she says that she would love to give me an opportunity, but, that seems like it will never happen. Each of these three guys are kinda fake and will eventually end up hurting her. I have always been a friend to her, at least in my opinion, and am always there when she wants to talk. It sounds like you are pretty inexperienced with women. The bolded part is the reason why she has no romantic interest in you. 1
WeAllMightBeNuts Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Want what the other 3 guys have? Do what they do.
ptp Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 There is nothing wrong with, you have flown into the friend zone. Your best bet is to assume this girl will never give you a shot, time to move on and find someone else. 1
Seneca Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 (edited) Too available and you are giving her too much attention. As stated by Feelsgoodman. Look at Guy 1. The guy screws everything in sight. She says she is over him. But then contradicts herself by saying she would still be willing to date him. I've read your past threads. There's something about your behavior that's constantly putting you in the friend zone... Since you are in a fraternity, I would look at the guy in the frat house that gets the most action. Watch how he behaves around women. Ask him how he does it... buy the guy some beers... I'm sure he will be willing to help you out. By the way, NEVER tell a girl that you like her. Only time you can get away with it is if she is interested in you... Also, don't ask the girl friends of the girl that you like on advice for getting together or any other crap relating to her. They always look out for their friends, which means that they will lie to you... Edited July 6, 2012 by Seneca
Balzac Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 To win you gotta not care. Put yourself out there, frat man can focus on this year's new crop of cuties. They parade thru every Sept into your parties and swilling liquid courage. It's like shooting fish in a barrel. You've selected the perfect zip code, you just need to care less.
Oncehadluv Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Ok you're a smart guy, presumably at USMadison. Look up the term emotional tampon. The get back to us. pretty much dead on post
Balzac Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 pretty much dead on post Buck up Bucky. We all learn. You have nearly all the pieces in place. Fall herd of cuties is dreaming big. You can make their dreams come true. Condoms - check Beer Cups - check Carefree Attitude - check Now I gotta ask. Are you a closet Bucky? Great mascot and competitive to wear the plush.
ThingsAreComplicated Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 The bolded part is the reason why she has no romantic interest in you. This is not always true. Same happened to me but she developed feelings for me, broke up with her BF and we meet on sunday
yongyong Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 Let's say these guys are really douchebags. But they have the ability to make her pusxy wet. that's it. It doesn't matter how good person you are. that's the first thing you gotta have to date a girl. Am I wrong here?
Algermas Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 I attend a university and there is this girl I really like. To jump ahead a little, I told her that I liked her and thought she was really cool. She told me that she thought I was a great, awesome guy, but that she wasn't looking for anyone {relationship/dating} at the current time. A few days later, I found out that she liked this other guy (we'll call him, guy 1). To make a long story short, guy 1 went around screwing everything that moved, so she got over him pretty quickly, but gave him a chance at a date. Meanwhile, another guy, guy 2, came in and told her that he liked this girl. She said that she didn't really like him, but after guy 1 was out of the picture, she was really contemplating going with guy 2. She has somewhat of a past with guy 2, but now has said that she doesn't like guy 2, because she likes someone else. She likes a different guy after guy 2, now, it's guy 3. I spoke with one of her friends, and she says that she would love to give me an opportunity, but, that seems like it will never happen. Each of these three guys are kinda fake and will eventually end up hurting her. I have always been a friend to her, at least in my opinion, and am always there when she wants to talk. I just don't understand. Any help will be appreciated. Nice men make females dry up like huge land whales make men develop erectile dysfuntion. If you want to be successful with women under 48 you need to stop being nice to them. If you feel the need to express positive emotions towards a female call your mother. Blood related women are for being nice to, all others are for ****ing.
Pyro Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 I attend a university and there is this girl I really like. To jump ahead a little, I told her that I liked her and thought she was really cool. She told me that she thought I was a great, awesome guy, but that she wasn't looking for anyone {relationship/dating} at the current time. A few days later, I found out that she liked this other guy (we'll call him, guy 1). To make a long story short, guy 1 went around screwing everything that moved, so she got over him pretty quickly, but gave him a chance at a date. Meanwhile, another guy, guy 2, came in and told her that he liked this girl. She said that she didn't really like him, but after guy 1 was out of the picture, she was really contemplating going with guy 2. She has somewhat of a past with guy 2, but now has said that she doesn't like guy 2, because she likes someone else. She likes a different guy after guy 2, now, it's guy 3. I spoke with one of her friends, and she says that she would love to give me an opportunity, but, that seems like it will never happen. Each of these three guys are kinda fake and will eventually end up hurting her. I have always been a friend to her, at least in my opinion, and am always there when she wants to talk. I just don't understand. Any help will be appreciated. You went around screwing other women so your confidence is fine. Going by what you shared with us it sounds like you aren't the type of guy that she wants. Being dependable and kind are things that she doesn't want right now, which are signs of immaturity. She may or may not grow out of it eventually. You can either forget about her and find someone a little more mature or you can sink down to those other guys level and have nothing more than a fling with her.....or a relationship that will most likely crash and burn.
sid33 Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 For some background, there is this girl I really like. To jump ahead a little, I told her that I liked her and thought she was really cool. She told me that she thought I was a great, awesome guy, but that she wasn't looking for anyone {relationship/dating} at the current time. A few days later, I found out that she liked this other guy (we'll call him, guy 1). To make a long story short, guy 1 went around screwing everything that moved, so she got over him pretty quickly, but gave him a chance at a date. Meanwhile, another guy, guy 2, came in and told her that he liked this girl. She said that she didn't really like him, but after guy 1 was out of the picture, she was really contemplating going with guy 2. She has somewhat of a past with guy 2, but now has said that she doesn't like guy 2, because she likes someone else. She likes a different guy after guy 2, now, it's guy 3. I spoke with one of her friends, and she says that she would love to give me an opportunity, but, that seems like it will never happen. Each of these three guys are kinda fake and will eventually end up hurting her. I have always been a friend to her, at least in my opinion, and am always there when she wants to talk. I am looking for a long term, meaningful relationship too. Should I just try to move on despite how hard it is? I also feel that I still have a chance to "sway" her, is that possible? You should have moved on a long time ago. Your chances of swaying her are slim to none.
MrCastle Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Move on. Friendship between a man and a woman will never work if one is attracted to the other, and the other isn't. Don't be her emotional tampon. You're a man. Move on and find someone willing to get physical with you.
William Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Moderator note: I merged three substantially similar threads into one, so there may be a small amount of duplicating of material. Carry on.
ThaWholigan Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 Moderator note: I merged three substantially similar threads into one, so there may be a small amount of duplicating of material. Carry on. I thought I was the only one who noticed that he posted the same thread 3 times
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