ahmedelsaka Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 (edited) hey, one of my best friends, he is a great person, we hang out and do stuff and we are REALLY CLOSE, ever since we were kids, but there is this girl, we have been through alot together, we are currently close friends, but now, he has added her on PS3 and started to talk and play with her, and i dont like that, and now i dont see any changes, but she seems to have started talking to him, and I dont have a crush on her, but she is so close to me,I need her to stay away from him as he is a player, and she drifted away once, I dont want that to happen again, i wanted to tell her soon, and the fact that he is talking to her all that much, CRUSHES ME! i want him to stop, but ow can I tell him or make him stop talking in a good and non offensive way, and also try to not show that I like her, or just show that I want her all to myself, and i dont enjoy him talking to her, or make her stop talking to him, I just want them to stop all the flirting and talking and stuff, in a polite way, what can i do? Please, I really need help on this one Edited July 5, 2012 by ahmedelsaka
Radu Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 I suspect you are young ... if that's the case, it's doubtfull that something with that girl will work out with you or him. I would just stay out of this. Reason being that he found her first, and she can make her own choices.
turnera Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 Uh...she's a friend, not a possession. If you want her to choose you, be the better option.
Shohane Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 So you like this girl, and your best friend is closer to her, am I right? Don't talk to him about it at all. Keep your jealousy to yourself or you'll come across as insecure. If you like her, talk to her, show her you like her. Don't hide your feelings. Befriend her first. You just have a rival here. Nothing to be worked up about. Be confident.
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