Algermas Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 Oh, please. Women will have passionate sex with a man who is better-looking than she is. There is no "art" to it. There's passionate sex and there's getting daddies angel to do whatever you want.
Curtis24 Posted July 10, 2012 Posted July 10, 2012 you can't accpt it becuase i doubt you have popped a cherry. nerds aren't having sex at all but they can get to level 97 of warcraft. "Popping a cherry" shows what a nerd you really are, since it has everything to do with random circumstance and little to do with ability or whatever you believe. Furthermore, it matters little to the woman, since they inevitably go out and have sex with better-looking men - who *really* make an impact. The very fact that you would actually go on a message board and brag about this shows you as being sad and pathetic.
Affliction Shirt Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 where can I find a man who is normal, doesnt just want sex and even vaguely respects women and who appreciates that this being the 21st century you do realize you wouldn't actually be attracted to those losers right?
DjinnAgain Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Lots of single, good guys out there. Well, here around me anyways. We live a ways apart. They make less waves than they worse sort of guy so it's easy to feel like the worse sort is more prevalent than they truly are...
Author Phennyphen Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 Hello! I came on to see this threads gone wild so I thought I should clear a few things up I think I've portrayed myself badly on here haha, I have had one night stands in the past year, after my break up, and for a while I was a bit of a slut, I admit. But I'm changing now, I want to get away from the whole meeting men in clubs and taking them home thing, its unfullfilling and like someone said, its pretty immatur. So while I have done those things, I'm not doing them anymore, I am under no illusions that a nice guy would want a slutty girl like I seem to of come across on this thread haha. Also, what I was asking really, when I posted this thread was (as well as a bit of a rant, I admit) "where can I meet nice men who may be looking for more than just a one night stand?" because sure as hell not gonna find someone in a club. I'm not ashamed of my wild year, I think I needed to get it out of my system after being in a looooong relationship, but I am pretty much done with that lifestyle now. I do not feel that I need to justify myself by telling you "what I've got to offer" a good man, I'm a good person and I know I've got a lot to offer a good man but thats not what this thread was intended to be about, so thank you to everyone who felt obliged to judge me but I dont need the validation of others to go ahead with what I want. Man that felt good!
Author Phennyphen Posted July 11, 2012 Author Posted July 11, 2012 Also, I'm not judging the guys in clubs who take girls home, that was what I wanted for a while, that was who I was. But now I'm trying not to be THAT girl, I'm wanting to know where I can meet nice guys who would want a nice girl. I dont even know where to start haha
headphones1 Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 I'm going to present a view that I haven't seen pop up on this thread so far: Believe it or not, there actually are a lot of "good guys" that go to clubs. I go to bars/clubs quite often because I'm a dj and I love hearing/dancing to good (underground)electronic music. There's also lots of good men and women that like to do the same. I guess it's kind of loud and hard to have a real conversation sometimes, so if you find someone you like, maybe just give him your phone number and go out on some dates first
truth_seeker Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 What exactly is a good man? I would say a good man is man who gives one woman is undivided attention, mind, body, heart and soul to.
TheWatcher Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Also, I'm not judging the guys in clubs who take girls home, that was what I wanted for a while, that was who I was. But now I'm trying not to be THAT girl, I'm wanting to know where I can meet nice guys who would want a nice girl. I dont even know where to start haha I believe you mentioned having 3 one-night stands in the space of a year ? In my opinion,that isn't slutty behaviour. Considering how seemingly easy it is for women to get sex...you were showing a lot of restraint. Nice decent guys are everywhere.Some of them are perhaps too shy or or apprehensive about approaching a woman & initiating anything;the fear of being humiliated,embarrassed,etc.Maybe guys assuming that you're already taken and don't bother to approach. Good luck to you.
nofool4u Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Also, I'm not judging the guys in clubs who take girls home, that was what I wanted for a while, that was who I was. But now I'm trying not to be THAT girl, I'm wanting to know where I can meet nice guys who would want a nice girl. I dont even know where to start haha Not in clubs.
Negative Nancy Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Where have all the good men gone?! They never existed.
Ninjainpajamas Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 Also, I'm not judging the guys in clubs who take girls home, that was what I wanted for a while, that was who I was. But now I'm trying not to be THAT girl, I'm wanting to know where I can meet nice guys who would want a nice girl. I dont even know where to start haha Do yourself a favor and not tell any "nice guy" about your wild past because you may not be the "nice girl" to him anymore, regardless of the fact that you have "changed"...you changed your behavior but you still did some not so nice things with other men you picked up at a bar/club...not a desirable quality, maybe for the man who just wants to get laid but not for the guy who's looking for the "nice girl". To those "nice guys" If you were really a "nice girl" you wouldn't have been there and done that in the first place, because a lot of those types of guys have not..so just do yourself a favor and keep that to in your black diary, unless you want to take the chance that some men will judge you on it and some will not...It's up to you, how you want a guy to like you maybe changes how he feels or thinks about you or whether you want a man who accepts you and your "wild" year...but don't be surprised If some would not, regardless of how they felt for you. Better advice, leave the past in the past, for the sake of both people. Btw I haven't read the thread at all, it just keeps popping up and that's what I saw you write that and decided to respond to it.
nofool4u Posted July 11, 2012 Posted July 11, 2012 They never existed. Actually, all the good guys are having fun being single while the women are out chasing bad boys and wondering why they can't find good men:o 1
Kofybean Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 ...I'm not ashamed of my wild year, I think I needed to get it out of my system after being in a looooong relationship, but I am pretty much done with that lifestyle now. I do not feel that I need to justify myself by telling you "what I've got to offer" a good man, I'm a good person and I know I've got a lot to offer a good man but , thats not what this thread was intended to be about, , so thank you to everyone who felt obliged to judge me but I dont need the validation of others to go ahead with what I want. Man that felt good! Oooh... but thats the main justification missing from your entire op rant. You specifically started a thread arguing "Where have all the good men gone?" but avoid providing any indication what makes you a good woman or anything a "good men" would even want. you imply that your exhausive intoxicated search at the clubs at night have proved that there are no good men. What exactly did you intend for this thread?
Gulf-Delta Posted July 25, 2012 Posted July 25, 2012 We're around. Women just don't desire us enough to make it work. They think because we're "good" we'll always love them, so they take advantage of us.
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