Feelsgoodman Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Men at the clubs I have simple, straightforward fun with. Now please point out why men would want to be the guy you want a relationship with rather than the guy who dumps his load without knowing your last name? Exactly. If yo're a cum dumpster for club dudes, what in the world makes you think you're good relationship material??
Author Phennyphen Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 Men at the clubs I have simple, straightforward fun with. Now please point out why men would want to be the guy you want a relationship with rather than the guy who dumps his load without knowing your last name? Guys in clubs dont know me, I'm just that really drunk girl with the nice boobies. Someone I'd want a relationship with would have to be someone who I'd met and got to know each other in all sorts of situations, not just a couple of hours in a club and then never see each other again after the next morning. Totally different situation.
Author Phennyphen Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 Exactly. If yo're a cum dumpster for club dudes, what in the world makes you think you're good relationship material?? Woah woah woah, cum dumpster, watch your mouth my friend, its not like thats what I do all the time, and the girl who goes out and gets hammered is not the girl who would be in a relationship. Dont tell me youve never done it yourself. Cum dumpster my arse mate.
ThaWholigan Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Guys in clubs dont know me, I'm just that really drunk girl with the nice boobies. Someone I'd want a relationship with would have to be someone who I'd met and got to know each other in all sorts of situations, not just a couple of hours in a club and then never see each other again after the next morning. Totally different situation. This is going to be a source of contention in this thread, I can see Do you do this often? I can imagine if this is how you do things then it would be difficult to meet a "good man". I think a change of scenery and possibly cutting back on the drunken nights out would be good for you.
fortyninethousand322 Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Men at the clubs I have simple, straightforward fun with. Now please point out why men would want to be the guy you want a relationship with rather than the guy who dumps his load without knowing your last name? I'm probably not a good guy, but I'd be ok with being the relationship guy and not the "sex guy". Sex is highly overrated in my view anyway.
Algermas Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Guys in clubs dont know me, I'm just that really drunk girl with the nice boobies. Someone I'd want a relationship with would have to be someone who I'd met and got to know each other in all sorts of situations, not just a couple of hours in a club and then never see each other again after the next morning. Totally different situation. That's not what I asked. I asked why men should be decent when women reward indecent men with casual sex. 4
ScienceGal Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Exactly. If yo're a cum dumpster for club dudes, what in the world makes you think you're good relationship material?? I wasn't going to be this harsh... but, the thought did come to mind. If there does happen to be a decent guy around, but he sees you going home for a one-nighter, I don't think he'll be giving you a second look. And, I'm not sure how often you take men home and from how many different clubs, but is it possible you've developed a reputation (or are at risk to)? If a guy was into one night stands, I wouldn't consider dating him. That behavior doesn't scream "I want a relationship".
Author Phennyphen Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 That's not what I asked. I asked why men should be decent when women reward indecent men with casual sex. Ahh yeah I get ya! Because its whats done nowadays, are you saying that for the whole year I've been single I shouldnt of had sex?
Author Phennyphen Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 I wasn't going to be this harsh... but, the thought did come to mind. If there does happen to be a decent guy around, but he sees you going home for a one-nighter, I don't think he'll be giving you a second look. And, I'm not sure how often you take men home and from how many different clubs, but is it possible you've developed a reputation (or are at risk to)? If a guy was into one night stands, I wouldn't consider dating him. That behavior doesn't scream "I want a relationship". Haha I think I've come across all wrong here, I've probably had 3 one night stands in the past year with guys in clubs, its not a weekly occurance haha
Algermas Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Ahh yeah I get ya! Because its whats done nowadays, are you saying that for the whole year I've been single I shouldnt of had sex? There's an amazing level of cognitive dissonance with women these days. Im going to bang random men until I find a decent, nice, stable guy to be in a relationship with. He'll get to listen to me complain about how fat this dress makes me look, how my coworker is a ***** and how much my cramps hurt. Any takers? Hey guys where have all the decent guys gone? 2
Nicomis Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Guys in clubs dont know me, I'm just that really drunk girl with the nice boobies. Someone I'd want a relationship with would have to be someone who I'd met and got to know each other in all sorts of situations, not just a couple of hours in a club and then never see each other again after the next morning. Totally different situation. Let me get "southern" on you here. If your fishing with chicken livers, your only going to catch catfish, but if you use a better lure you might catch a trophy bass. In other words, if you are drunk with a nice rack, then you will only attract drunks and creeps. JS, 1
aj22one Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Ahh yeah I get ya! Because its whats done nowadays, are you saying that for the whole year I've been single I shouldnt of had sex? That's what I did haha. I had sex with chicks I was in a relationship with but otherwise stayed celibate. Keeps life easier I think. haha 3
ThaWholigan Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 That's what I did haha. I had sex with chicks I was in a relationship with but otherwise stayed celibate. Keeps life easier I think. haha Think it's a method that might work well for me .....
Feelsgoodman Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Woah woah woah, cum dumpster, watch your mouth my friend, its not like thats what I do all the time, and the girl who goes out and gets hammered is not the girl who would be in a relationship. Dont tell me youve never done it yourself. Cum dumpster my arse mate. If the cum dumpster is your arse, that's even worse. Who in their right mind would want to have a relationship with a woman who has anal sex with random guys she meets at clubs??
fortyninethousand322 Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Ahh yeah I get ya! Because its whats done nowadays, are you saying that for the whole year I've been single I shouldnt of had sex? I don't know if "should" is the word I'd use. But, is it really that hard to go an entire year without sex (or longer should that happen)? I would think that if a relationship is what you really want, going a year without sex wouldn't be that big of a problem.
fishtaco Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Guys in clubs dont know me, I'm just that really drunk girl with the nice boobies. Someone I'd want a relationship with would have to be someone who I'd met and got to know each other in all sorts of situations, not just a couple of hours in a club and then never see each other again after the next morning. Totally different situation. Hehe. Algermas and Feelsgoodman are kinda harsh, but they have a valid point. You want a good man? Sure. But being the drunk chick with the nice tits at the bar probably won't get you that. Although I say kudos to you for your fun-loving attitude. Everyone should go out, have fun, get it out of their system, before they settle down. Because once you settle down, you're not going back to that single life. So, what are your qualifications to landing a good man? Why would a good man want to be with you? Also, why don't you divide and conquer? When you are out having fun, have fun, don't worry about the good man. When you are ready to settle down, then look for the good man. You can't party it up and look for the good man at the same time. 1
William Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Great topic. Let's phase out the profanities and vulgarities. Very unbecoming of the good ladies and men of LoveShack. Thanks.
lino Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 They're the guys you've asked to be 'just friends ' with over the years. Reading posts like these makes me so happy I'm not single anymore! Hopefully I don't have to deal with women like this ever again.
Algermas Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Hehe. Algermas and Feelsgoodman are kinda harsh, but they have a valid point. You want a good man? Sure. But being the drunk chick with the nice tits at the bar probably won't get you that. Although I say kudos to you for your fun-loving attitude. Everyone should go out, have fun, get it out of their system, before they settle down. Because once you settle down, you're not going back to that single life. So, what are your qualifications to landing a good man? Why would a good man want to be with you? Also, why don't you divide and conquer? When you are out having fun, have fun, don't worry about the good man. When you are ready to settle down, then look for the good man. You can't party it up and look for the good man at the same time. I agree with you that this should be the OP's tactic. However my question was meant both specifically to the OP and women in general. During their teens and twenties they almost universally reward players, criminals, slackers, creeps, jerks, *******s and reprobates with uncomplicated, no strings attached access to their vagina. Then when they're ready to settle down they wonder where the men who have been observing the above for over a decade have gone. I mean honestly. 1
Robert Z Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Woah woah woah, cum dumpster, watch your mouth my friend, its not like thats what I do all the time, and the girl who goes out and gets hammered is not the girl who would be in a relationship. Dont tell me youve never done it yourself. Cum dumpster my arse mate. No kidding! Don't you love it when crude, classless people hide behind morality arguments. ... a good christian, no doubt.
fishtaco Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 I agree with you that this should be the OP's tactic. However my question was meant both specifically to the OP and women in general. During their teens and twenties they almost universally reward players, criminals, slackers, creeps, jerks, *******s and reprobates with uncomplicated, no strings attached access to their vagina. Then when they're ready to settle down they wonder where the men who have been observing the above for over a decade have gone. I mean honestly. I see that a lot too. But the smart ones, know to "switch their type". If they keep going after the "exciting guys", they know exactly what will happen. So they don't. The go after the boring salary men with professional jobs. Men that back in the ladies' twenties they wouldn't even give the time of the day to. Hence I always say, the golden age of dating for women is in their twenties. The golden age of dating for men is in their thirties. So really, when you are young and hot, party it up. Make sure you don't pop out a baby or catch STD that a barrage of antibiotics won't cure. Then later on, don't forget to switch your type. Plenty of those desk job guys that were neglected during their early days will feel like their lucky star is suddenly shining on them. Win-win situation.
Algermas Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 I see that a lot too. But the smart ones, know to "switch their type". If they keep going after the "exciting guys", they know exactly what will happen. So they don't. The go after the boring salary men with professional jobs. Men that back in the ladies' twenties they wouldn't even give the time of the day to. Hence I always say, the golden age of dating for women is in their twenties. The golden age of dating for men is in their thirties. So really, when you are young and hot, party it up. Make sure you don't pop out a baby or catch STD that a barrage of antibiotics won't cure. Then later on, don't forget to switch your type. Plenty of those desk job guys that were neglected during their early days will feel like their lucky star is suddenly shining on them. Win-win situation. Please do note that if these men have ever been around Algermas they'll straight up laugh in your face if you're mid to late twenties. Algermas espouses the gospel of barely legal teenage girls to his office worker coworkers on a weekly basis.
lino Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 I see that a lot too. But the smart ones, know to "switch their type". If they keep going after the "exciting guys", they know exactly what will happen. So they don't. The go after the boring salary men with professional jobs. Men that back in the ladies' twenties they wouldn't even give the time of the day to. Hence I always say, the golden age of dating for women is in their twenties. The golden age of dating for men is in their thirties. So really, when you are young and hot, party it up. Make sure you don't pop out a baby or catch STD that a barrage of antibiotics won't cure. Then later on, don't forget to switch your type. Plenty of those desk job guys that were neglected during their early days will feel like their lucky star is suddenly shining on them. Win-win situation. Win-win? Being the safety cushion for a woman who's been a mattress for 50 blokes doesn't sound like winning at all to me 1
sid3 Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Please do note that if these men have ever been around Algermas they'll straight up laugh in your face if you're mid to late twenties. Algermas espouses the gospel of barely legal teenage girls to his office worker coworkers on a weekly basis. Wait what? Who's Algermas? I thought you were. If so why are you speaking in the 3rd person?
Algermas Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Wait what? Who's Algermas? I thought you were. If so why are you speaking in the 3rd person? Sometimes I like to pretend im royalty.
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