The girl I like and her ex

[RobRussell]

So here's the thing there's this girl I like known her for a few years and about a month ago she split with her ex who cheated on her.

Fast forward to this week we go out one night to the bar I work at and we just sit talking and flirting for about 3/4 hours I then drive her home and we kiss goodnight, know I no she still has a thing for her ex and she will text him alot and see him, he tells her he wants to marry her and be with her but wants to be single while he's still young. Iv told her that he's obviously using her and she knows what a nice guy I am and that I'd never cheat etc.

Anyway her ex goes on holiday sleeps with women gets one pregnant meanwhile me and her spend some more time together and text eachother lots, her ex comes home and they see eachother And I'm sure sleep together because the lovebite on her neck,

She tells me that she hopes I don't get attached and she says don't like me more than a friend ok?, Now iv told her that she's confused and needs to sort all her stuff out and that maybe one day il want to be with her.

Problem is I do want to be her boyfriend and I do like her but don't no what to do about it as I don't think I can just lie and keep being good friends and seeing her but wanting more

[AH1990]

So here's the thing there's this girl I like known her for a few years and about a month ago she split with her ex who cheated on her.

Fast forward to this week we go out one night to the bar I work at and we just sit talking and flirting for about 3/4 hours I then drive her home and we kiss goodnight, know I no she still has a thing for her ex and she will text him alot and see him, he tells her he wants to marry her and be with her but wants to be single while he's still young. Iv told her that he's obviously using her and she knows what a nice guy I am and that I'd never cheat etc.

Anyway her ex goes on holiday sleeps with women gets one pregnant meanwhile me and her spend some more time together and text eachother lots, her ex comes home and they see eachother And I'm sure sleep together because the lovebite on her neck,

She tells me that she hopes I don't get attached and she says don't like me more than a friend ok?, Now iv told her that she's confused and needs to sort all her stuff out and that maybe one day il want to be with her.

Problem is I do want to be her boyfriend and I do like her but don't no what to do about it as I don't think I can just lie and keep being good friends and seeing her but wanting more

 

Ex came back. They had sex. Game over for you. Simple as that. Of course she is not going to tell you that that is exactly what they did. Why would she? She would be hurting her chances of being with you in the future, incase her and her ex don't work out. She's a lying b***h, and she needs a fall back.

 

Best think you can do is say this:

 

I don't want to be your friend. I have enough already. I wish you the best in everything. Good luck. Maybe I'll see you around.

 

Then walk away with your head held high. Delete her number (bbm, skype, all that $hit), facebook etc. As far as your concerned, she's out of your life, and your moving on.

 

Side note: I had a girl pull these same sorta moves on me. I did exactly what you I told you to do. Even deleted her off bbm. The aftermath was pretty funny. For some reason she blew a gasket after I did that. Made for a pretty pathetic conversation on her end

 

 

Almost forgot: If you ever ask a girl out on a date, and she starts flaking later on, just say this:

Sounds like you have a case of the maybe's. So maybe I'll see you around.

[veggirl]

Just walk away. No point being friends when you want more.

 

She is still sleeping with her ex and attached to him, she is still into that drama. You will be nothing but a casualty along THEIR path if you stick around. Don't be that!