morichu Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Never cared honestly. I'm a stud in bed and well hung. Once I saw my last ex's new guy I laughed pretty hard. Guy was a wimp and a huge downgrade
Chi townD Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 After that ****ty e mail through a friend the only pathetic power I have is to delete her from her fb friends. She only has 3 so it would be noticed and will stop me wanting to snoop around. She is with the new hunk now and I am history and that was made clear through a friend. Very harsh I think but it is what it is. Geez, would you stop downgrading yourself and upgrading this guy!!! Look, she went out with you in the first place so obviously there's something about you that she liked. And if she liked it, then logic would dictate that other girls will like it too! In the meantime. Work on yourself. Get a new haircut and some new clothes. Get a membership to a gym and start pushing some weight and running your ass off on the treadmill. It's a great way to release that stress that you have and work out some of those frustrations. Plus, you'll be working on getting a ripped bod! Work on your self image and your self confidence!
morichu Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Thanks you have been a great help during this difficult night. To hear your ex is with someone else, having sex with someone else and telling someone to never contact her again. WOW that is a big hit to take in any one night. I think you should take your ex's advice and never contact her again. Seriously bro, have a little pride. She's treating you like dirt so just go your separate ways instead of constantly worrying about her. She deserves nothing from you. Just pretend she never existed and move on with your life. You can't let anybody control your life man. People are gonna come in and out of your life. Some are gonna mean more than others but at the end of the day you have your own morals/standards and you need to do what's best for yourself.
Author Zammo25 Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 Just got up early after a crappy 5 hours sleep waking up all the time and the first thing that comes into your head, her and him. OW. It is painful. The fact is I blew it and lover boy is in my shoes now. A long day ahead.
Author Zammo25 Posted July 6, 2012 Author Posted July 6, 2012 I think what hurts me the most is that she sent that snotty text via a friend that she is seeing someone else and for me to never contact her again especially after I sent a very nice e mail thanking her for everything and wishing her well. I would also add she sent me 2 e mails last month asking how I was so to then turn it on me like I am some sort of stalker and harrasser is not fair on me. She is a coward and could have had the decency to e mail me back with a reply that she has moved on and wishing me well. It would still hurt like hell but I felt that was the least I deserved.
radiodarcy Posted July 6, 2012 Posted July 6, 2012 in the beginning - - just the thought of my ex having sex with someone else was enough to make my stomach hurt. no idea as to when he actually started having sex with other girls - - although i strongly suspect it was way before he dumped me at any rate - - by the time he did get back in touch with me it was to tell me his girlfriend was pregnant. it stung. but it had been seven months of NC by then; so after a few days i was over it.
Jamesblame Posted July 30, 2012 Posted July 30, 2012 I felt weird. But two altruistic thoughts came right afterwards. Firstly, ... I am her "ex". I had sex with her first. So I win (!) He gets sloppy seconds,screw him. She doesn't belong to me and I don't belong to her. But I'm still first. Also...she's not the greatest lover. Not missing much in the sack. Second: I hope it works out. I hate thinking of her degrading herself and sleeping with everyone. I hope she finds a guy to make her really happy-- outside the sack and in. If it's a FWB thing....I get annoyed because towards the end we weren't sleeping together, haha.
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