MarcoInaros Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 I was wondering, are there any good tests out there that would give you a hint on whether to ask a girl out again? Especially if you are unsure after the first date. I was thinking of: Texting her, saying how much you enjoyed meeting her, and suggesting another outing (feeding off of information gained during the first date). If she doesn't respond positively, then move on. The reason I ask is because I went on a date but I got mixed signals from her so I wasn't sure if I should proceed.
Philosoraptor Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 If you are interested you ask. Don't try and guess with someone else, just go based on what you want. If she says yes, great. If she says no then it's not the end of the world. I'd tell her how much you enjoyed yourself and suggest another outing.
Art_Critic Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 (edited) Did you text her to setup the first date ? I would suggest calling her on the phone and conversing with her with your voice, after all isn't that what you do on a date ? When I was single..about the only test I have used is I always kiss a girl on the first date, if by chance a kiss doesn't happen it wasn't even in the cards for a second date. Edited July 5, 2012 by Art_Critic
Author MarcoInaros Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 Did you text her to setup the first date ? I would suggest calling her on the phone and conversing with her with your voice, after all isn't that what you do on a date ? We met online, and then mostly texted each other to set up the date. But that was over two weeks ago now. I hesitated, and then I gave up. No communication since the date. The boat has probably sailed by now.
Philosoraptor Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 And you'll lose what by asking her at this point? You've still got nothing to lose so it can't really hurt to take a stab and see, if you were interested in her anyways. 1
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