KansasChica Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 So, after seven months broken up, my ex has started popping back in my life again. He definitely has more of an avoidant personality and after he broke up with me, completely withdrew from everything- friends, activities, parties, etc. The thing is, he never really had a definite reason to break up with me. He gave me a slew of excuses: different places in life, I was his first serious girlfriend, etc. etc. A part of me hoped that if we started hanging around again, the spark would still be there. And it is! Whenever we're in the same room together he gravitates towards me...and I see him looking at me a lot. One night several weeks ago, we hooked up. He told me he still loved me and missed me, yada yada. I didn't pester him afterwards though. I miss him like crazy, but he makes NO effort to be near me, get in touch with me, anything. He's in his mid-20s and all of his good guy friends have serious girlfriends. I guess it just hurts to know that he would rather be alone and lonely- the third wheel with all of his friends and their girlfriends, than be with me.
Philosoraptor Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Sounds like he is still working through things and is making a mature choice to be alone rather than jumping into anything right now with anyone, including you. 1
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