what2do Posted July 6, 2004 Posted July 6, 2004 Man, this is so hard, i am like falling apart. i thoiught all this time i have been carrying on with this MM i had it all under control. but i love him. and it is starting to really kill me that every night we are together that he goes home to a wife that he loves or not. still a wife none the less.i dont want to give him up, i feel such a connection with him that i have never had before with anyone and i want him in my life. but it is just suddenly getting so hard. i dont want to share him nor do i want to be the other woman in his or anyones life. how did this happen to me? i never imagined this. i love him so much i just dont know what to do. i know the best thing to do is to let him go and stop seeing him but it is so hard! i dont knwo what i am looking for in a response but i just needed to vent it out to some people who understand me. he is like the best guy i have ever met, my best friend, i hold on to hope that we will someday make it and be together but i know that is a long shot. why does this happen? i believe everything happens for a reason but i just cant be sure of what the reason for this is..... thanks for listening.
fanou22 Posted July 6, 2004 Posted July 6, 2004 You have come to the right place. Whether you need to vent out or the advice you will definitely get it on this forum. Some people will come hard on you and some of us will be here to read what you want to tell us. The majority will agree that the best thing to do is leave because there is no future with him. The majority of us have done that. If you read through all the OW posts, all of us have written at some point that we have a special connection with MM. Nobody will tell you it will not hurt. It will hurt a lot to have to let go but sooner or later you will have to do it. If it makes you feel any better you may want to start recounting how it started between the two of you. The good times and the bad times. It is hard to do so but you have to be analytical and dissect every single aspect of your relationship. You also have to look inside you. We are all here as a shoulder to cry on. So feel free and let it out. It will feel better.
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