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Easiest way to cope: Meet new people!!!


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Seriously. Everyone here probably knows my story. Love of my life left me 5 months ago after 2 years.

 

Well, today I met a friend of a friend, who was female and gorgeous, and I didn't think about my ex all day.

 

So my point is, meeting other people the same gender as your ex, even if you have no intent of dating them or anything, can be a great distraction so you don't think about you ex all the time. Just flirt a little, just talk to new men or women. It helps, especially if they're easy on the eyes ;)

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Seriously. Everyone here probably knows my story. Love of my life left me 5 months ago after 2 years.

 

Well, today I met a friend of a friend, who was female and gorgeous, and I didn't think about my ex all day.

 

So my point is, meeting other people the same gender as your ex, even if you have no intent of dating them or anything, can be a great distraction so you don't think about you ex all the time. Just flirt a little, just talk to new men or women. It helps, especially if they're easy on the eyes ;)

 

I have to agree with this, I sometimes go out with my boy - friends and I almost never think about my ex, we have fun and I enjoy it!

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So my point is, meeting other people the same gender as your ex, even if you have no intent of dating them or anything, can be a great distraction so you don't think about you ex all the time. Just flirt a little, just talk to new men or women. It helps, especially if they're easy on the eyes ;)

 

Yeps, I agree! That's what I've been doing ;)

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For better or worse, all I could tihnk about was how I can get in this girl's pants (sounds bad I know lol) :D Not seriosuly of course, but it was fun to just entertain the thought you know.

 

Try to meet new people. Really, I know when the breakup is fresh, it seems impossible to think about that kind of thing...but once the pain is dulled, it really does amazing things to go flirt around some. Who knows, you may even nab yourself a little rebound or somethin.

 

The more people you interact with, the better you'll feel.

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