steelgator Posted July 14, 2012 Posted July 14, 2012 my ex has come back time and time again. Usually after a month of NC. It's almost been one week of my fresh new NC. But i can go for a long time. She has been writing me however. Messages that will get my attention and she wants me to respond to. It's just not working. why does she keep coming back? and why does she keep leaving?
Fixyou Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 He dumped me out of the blue three weeks ago and a day. NC started half an hour after (sent him text about gift I still had to give him; he wrote back something about honesty). Tough because I see him about two times a week with a running group and we happen to be training for the same marathon. Don't know if I'm being smart or mean to him. Although think I need to take care of myself first since he obviously showed how much he cares about my feelings.
IST Posted July 15, 2012 Posted July 15, 2012 Effectively? 3 days. Although we haven't really seen/talked to each other since the 27th. I did send her a few messages though. It's hard not to break it again. Unblocked her from FB today but didn't message her/look at her profile. Everytime I feel the urge to talk to her, I just go for a run. (or a walk, if I don't feel like running) Gives me time to think, and usually when I get back I don't feel such a strong urge to message her.
Author Cl0udy Posted July 16, 2012 Author Posted July 16, 2012 How long do you guys feel its okay to sleep with someone else. I mean why not.
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