SierraMist Posted July 6, 2004 Posted July 6, 2004 heres the story: Last night,i had drunk with a couple of my friends to point where i got tipsy, it was the 4th of july and i decided to have fun!. Well me being tipsy i ended up calling my ex!!!!! after 3 weeks of me not calling her. I told her that i still had feelings for her and that i get jealous whenever shes around guys!. She responded by telling me that she also had feelings for me that she pretends she doesnt care when i hang out with other girls by in reality she gets pissed off at the girls i hang out with. Now that i know that she has feelings for me, and i have feelings for her...where should i take this????? What should i do with this knowledge??
supermom Posted July 6, 2004 Posted July 6, 2004 I say go for it! Everything happens for a reason and if you two both have feelings for eachother, ask her out on a date! Good luck
dudesomewhere Posted July 6, 2004 Posted July 6, 2004 you shouldn't do anything... now I don't know the priors to your relationship, who dumped who...etc. With me for examplle, if a girl dumped me, ok. We go our ways. Sure I might think about her and I assume she MIGHT think about me, ok...so, what of it? Nothing of it. I never assume anyone misses me because they love me or WANT me back, I do however assume they would say something like what you mentioned if they are bored, or whoever they saw to break up with you/me over dumped them and now they reconsider you/me. That's how I see it. But you really shouldn't take my advice. I'm that type of oddball that wouldn't take a person up on a bootycall. I wouldn't want to be with an ex again even if I got the free nookie, I'd prefer celibacy or Mrs. Thumb and her 4 daughters
CurlyIam Posted July 6, 2004 Posted July 6, 2004 If indeed, you were telling the truth, I think you should do something about it. Not something obvious, but calling her in order to appologies for making that call when intoxicated would seem a great first step. Telling her that you regret doing that while in that condition, but are glad to be on speaking terms ... After a while you can email each other up to the point where you'd be asking her to have a cup of coffee with you. I'm sure you'll know what to do next . Curly
Author SierraMist Posted July 6, 2004 Author Posted July 6, 2004 it was a mutual thing, before we went out, we were great friends, while we were dating we both had fun...but problems did arise, she gets paranoid and she gets jealous over nothing for example, she heard that i like someone else and she will confront me about it. And ofcourse i did some things that were wrong also. So we both decided that it would be for the better. But during those 3 weeks, i was lonely but i made out with other girls, she made out with other guys, we both ended up tryin to get with other people. During those 3 weeks, we both played with each others minds. We both would say that were having a great summer, meeting new people but really we missed each other. California is a big place.....were both gonna be seniors in highschool. I was drunk, but i knew what i was saying when i told her i still had feelings for her. It was just a boost to tell her how i felt coz i figured it'd be alot easier to move on if she said "I dont have feelings for you now". But instead she said she had feelings for me.
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