Closure - It is important

[Zammo25]

Hi people. I posted on here 2 years ago heartbroken with my split from my ex. Well guess what I have split up with my next partner as well !

 

Anyway I never really got any real closure and after 6 months of being apart except 3 dates as " friends " I needed closure and I sent this e mail for me more than anything. I do not regret it and I hope it will help me move on again.

 

I think a heartfelt message was needed for me and as I said it was for me , not her. Anyone else been in my boat and what are your opinions ?

 

I know it is over but will always remember the fantastic year of our lives we shared. I could not be " friends " anymore in March as the 3 days we shared this year were very special to me and my love for you was still very strong and " friends " was not enough for me. I guess you had moved on with your feelings for me. I hope you respect that. It was not easy for me. I did love you very much.

 

Take care. You are a fabulous Woman. You are beautiful in looks and what is in your heart. You are kind and a special person. Always know that. Always know I always thought that. It never changed. Never get in a bad way , never doubt yourself and always know you are a fantastic and beautiful person

 

With my rollercoaster life and my uncertain career it did not help to give any stability for us and I now know the mistakes I made with us. I did not grab the chance and by not doing this let a wonderful Woman slip away. I did not express myself well and the communication between us broke down. I don't think we ever sat down face to face and expressed our feelings and hopes for the future. It just " fizzled out " and there was so much left to fight for. For me anyway. I did not want to pressure you, hassle you and be " needy " and I think I was true to that but it did not mean I did not hope for weeks and months we may not get back together mistakes I regret but cannot change.

 

You saved me and gave me a new hope last year and as long as I live I will always cherish that and remember that. Maybe one day in the future we will bump into each other again and can remember some of the great times we shared togetherI felt happy and at ease with you. I loved being with you, every single second. You " understood " me. More in 2 months than ***** did in 5 years. Of all my regrets in my life, it is you losing you *****.

 

Whatever your life brings you. I hope it is wonderful for you and *****. I hope the new Man treats you like the Diamond you are , a one in a million and does not make the mistakes I made and holds onto you tight and realises what a lucky Man he is. He has hit the jackpot.

This is my last e mail as I just wanted to say these things to you.Take care and be happy *****.

Edited July 4, 2012 by Zammo25

[Samilia]

Hi people. I posted on here 2 years ago heartbroken with my split from my ex. Well guess what I have split up with my next partner as well !

 

Anyway I never really got any real closure and after 6 months of being apart except 3 dates as " friends " I needed closure and I sent this e mail for me more than anything. I do not regret it and I hope it will help me move on again.

 

I think a heartfelt message was needed for me and as I said it was for me , not her. Anyone else been in my boat and what are your opinions ?

 

I know it is over but will always remember the fantastic year of our lives we shared. I could not be " friends " anymore in March as the 3 days we shared this year were very special to me and my love for you was still very strong and " friends " was not enough for me. I guess you had moved on with your feelings for me. I hope you respect that. It was not easy for me. I did love you very much.

 

Take care. You are a fabulous Woman. You are beautiful in looks and what is in your heart. You are kind and a special person. Always know that. Always know I always thought that. It never changed. Never get in a bad way , never doubt yourself and always know you are a fantastic and beautiful person

 

With my rollercoaster life and my uncertain career it did not help to give any stability for us and I now know the mistakes I made with us. I did not grab the chance and by not doing this let a wonderful Woman slip away. I did not express myself well and the communication between us broke down. I don't think we ever sat down face to face and expressed our feelings and hopes for the future. It just " fizzled out " and there was so much left to fight for. For me anyway. I did not want to pressure you, hassle you and be " needy " and I think I was true to that but it did not mean I did not hope for weeks and months we may not get back together mistakes I regret but cannot change.

 

You saved me and gave me a new hope last year and as long as I live I will always cherish that and remember that. Maybe one day in the future we will bump into each other again and can remember some of the great times we shared togetherI felt happy and at ease with you. I loved being with you, every single second. You " understood " me. More in 2 months than ***** did in 5 years. Of all my regrets in my life, it is you losing you *****.

 

Whatever your life brings you. I hope it is wonderful for you and *****. I hope the new Man treats you like the Diamond you are , a one in a million and does not make the mistakes I made and holds onto you tight and realises what a lucky Man he is. He has hit the jackpot.

This is my last e mail as I just wanted to say these things to you.Take care and be happy *****.

 

Most people send a letter drooling all over their ex with puppy love and excuses for being who they are, hoping that will make the ex change their mind. Most don't even get an answer. They call it closure when 99% of the time it's just a badly disguised attempt at getting their ex back.

 

Good for you if it helped you but I wouldn't have sent it. I am the only person I can get closure from.