Flawless Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 (edited) A little HELP* in here? Hello, So I'm gonna share my story with you guys...and I need some advices and wise words... In the late of 2010, I met this guy who kind of been stalking me on facebook for months, and he decided to add me using my blackberry pin which I posted on facebook. At that time he started to talk to me everyday and night which I know it's weird, but then I kinda liked to get to know each other more. He was same as my age and we discovered that he's only one week older than me and we had so much in common, and he have told me that he never fell in love before. And he told me he studies in the UK and he was in town because he had a break. Later that night, he finally admitted that he's in love with me and he wanted us to be ended with something. After that, I dunno what happened to me, but my life took an 180 degrees turn...I was so happy and I've finally found something to live for. For about 4 monthes he started calling everyday, talking to me about everything that goes through his mind, he even talked about marriage which I didn't expect from him at all...and he told me about ourlives afterwards and stuff. I was so caring by the way, that he always told me that nobody would care for him as much as I do. Anyway, so he traveled to UK on January, 2011 and there goes the unpleasent events. His care for me started to fade as I was so upset that I have to ask him what's wrong. But he started to ignore my texts, my calls, everything. Also, he keeps himself away for days and weeks and then come back with some excuses. One of those excuses is that he had a fight with his family and he didn't want to talk about it with me. I kept insisting him to tell me but he refused. And he cried on the fone asking for forgiveness. And the same senario happened over the days and monthes that went by...it's like I don't find him when I need him, but if he needed me I'm always there. When he came back in town, he called...but he sounded really sad...and I asked him what's wrong, but as always, he refused to tell me. Again, we started to exchange calls, but he never wanna answer me. I honestly stop calling to see what's he gonna do, and what happened is...that he suddenly disappeared and never text nor call. I dunno what happened to him but he just suddenly did disappear! I've gone really crazy and I couldn't text him or call him because I've already lost my pride. Monthes after that, I've viewed his facebook profile and discovered that he changed his status to "in a relationship" which it was still "single" when i was with him (cuz he wanted our relationship to be a secret) and all in a sudden he changes his status talking about love and stuff... I even discovered he has a twitter account and he tweets about love stuff. It's been a year since the last time I heard from him and I still can't think about anything but him... I really don't know what to do... please help me... thanks for reading... Edited July 4, 2012 by Flawless
Philosoraptor Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Well it sounds like you were the ego boost until he found someone in the flesh. Even though he was "stalkerish" he wasn't attached. 1
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