SerCay Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Dear LSers, especially those who have been helping me through these days.. I'm so glad to announce you my joy.. The following happened today.. -Ex called -Told me he still loved me -Said he understood why I had doubts about him -Told me he knew it was mostly his fault why it all went wrong between us -Told me he acted like a jerk during the break up because he was so frustrated for all that was going wrong between us, so it was the situation he was pissed at, not me -Told me he missed me -told me he shouldn't have been so stingy to save almost all of his income -I felt nothing! NO THING! -It was like speaking to a long lost pal -The stories he told me sounded like same ol' same ol' -I totally realised why I had to leave him -I realised my decision was for the best -Told him all that was bothering me and that his actions out of insecurity had screwed us up from the beginning (he kept in touch with his ex during the first months of our relationship cuz he THOUGHT I was not serious with him and talking to others guys..) -He finally ACCEPTED this -We hung up after 1.5 hrs cuz I wanted to go for a run and we were out of stuff to talk about I'm so happy..I finally finally have my closure, and i don't even have the slightest bit of hope to get back together In my thread before this I said that I couldn't get closure because I couldn't accept that our relationship was over because HE didn't want to work on our problems and only wanted to blame me and sit and wait till problems would pass..So now he called me and indeed..finally admitted this and now I can move on..PHEWW It's sooo weird..although I liked to hear his voice and laugh with him on the phone again, I INSTANTLY realized that this man would never ever change... He would always remain the -I'm Asperger so I'm weird accept me this way because you know I'm weird- and the -Everything that's going wrong in my life is someone else's fault- guy..
CopingGal Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 I'm very glad you are feeling better. I just hope he doesn't keep calling you.
Author SerCay Posted July 4, 2012 Author Posted July 4, 2012 I'm very glad you are feeling better. I just hope he doesn't keep calling you. Thanks CopingGal, I hope I will continue in this vibe and now I have my closure, I hope I will automatically gradually take up on normal life again.. I highly doubt he will keep calling me because I didn't give him my new cell no., he understood this. Plus I made myself very clear. Thank you so much for all of your advices on my threads so far, you're one the few people here that helped me through with wise advices..
CopingGal Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 You are welcome. I'm trying to follow in the footsteps here of so many people that have helped me and continue to help.
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