NYC-BigKat Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Uhhh....this is what this cute girl told me last night when I was out with a friend in the city. She was really cute too . I stopped to talk to about 5 girls & they all say basically the same thing all the time. Some use another line or something but it comes out to the same stuff though. For example, this one girl I was talking to started saying I'm too busy to date & dont u know girls are very busy now. I didn't know what to do after that. I went back to my friend & he laughed like it was funny but its not! Why are girls so busy to date? Whats going on? What are they doing so much?? And uh, why is my friend laughing at this?
TigerCub Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 I think your friend is laughing because you actually believe that excuse. Yes, girls are busy going to school, working, having hobbies, spending time with friends, etc... BUT, if a girl meets a guy she's really interested in, she would make the time. 3
truth_seeker Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 They were nice enough to let you down gracefully. Exactly. Girls will ALWAYS make time for a guy they like. Just like guys will do almost anything to be with a girl he likes.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted July 4, 2012 Author Posted July 4, 2012 They were nice enough to let you down gracefully. Yea but I'm tired of that! It takes alot for me to keep asking girls out & no reward for it. Only a couple times I got a number but it never led to stuff. Most guys just stare but not me, uh uh. I got guts but no glory .
Cracker Jack Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Yeah...those girls just didn't have any interest. I can tell (by your posts) that it's bothering you, which means you likely need to take a step back from it for now. Just try not to make dating such a priority for yourself.
nessaaa Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 girls these days don't feel the need for relationships, their happy with bein single and talking to multiple guys without being tied down.
MrCastle Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 As stated already, girls will find a way to date whoever they're interested in. "Busy" is a cop out. She just wasn't interested. Dating is very much a numbers game. There's too many women out there to focus on the ones who reject you. Keep pushing and you will find one that digs you.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted July 4, 2012 Author Posted July 4, 2012 As stated already, girls will find a way to date whoever they're interested in. "Busy" is a cop out. She just wasn't interested. Dating is very much a numbers game. There's too many women out there to focus on the ones who reject you. Keep pushing and you will find one that digs you. Thats true but the energy to do it is uggghh! It not easy at all. I just feel like I getting teased very much 'cause its hot out & girls are dressing very very sexy. Some have the greatest body I ever seen & it makes me feel so hard when I see them. I just wanna have a girlfriend or even just have a hot body for a day. Its so hard to ignore them. I just cant .
SJC2008 Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 I'm wondering why the one girl told you "Don't you know girls are too busy to date now" in a condescending manner like that. Are you conversatin with them first or jumping right in asking for a date? Sorry OP for your troubles but at least you can tell your self that you have the confidence (that silver bullet many women here talk about) to approach women. I've never done it personally, the closest I've come is asking some customers out which aint easy either but it's not 100% cold approach.
Teal Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 World domination is a very time-consuming ideal, you know. 2
Shaun-Dro Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Thats true but the energy to do it is uggghh! It not easy at all. I just feel like I getting teased very much 'cause its hot out & girls are dressing very very sexy. Some have the greatest body I ever seen & it makes me feel so hard when I see them. I just wanna have a girlfriend or even just have a hot body for a day. Its so hard to ignore them. I just cant . Not you again! What's your problem?? Are you ever going to heed what I'd been telling you to do? Forget trying to court these snot-nose women and get yourself an escort. It'll relieve all that sexual tension and with no need to worry about putting in so much energy because the payoff is instant.
yongyong Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 I understand about 100% rejection. But most girls expect guys work around their schedule and treat them like 'hey you are in line, take a number' It's harder to set the appointment with a girl working as a cashier than an attorney. I finally meet them by waiting patiently and for 2nd date, I would have to the same sxit. (discuss when would be good for her, set the date and confirm a day before) I don't like this and usually exit myself out of there. (If I was patient enough, I am sure I would've gotten more pusxy but I didn't give a damn) This bxtch told me this weekend wasn't good for her. Fine, she told me next week, she is busy on following weekend as well. Now should I wait for 3rd weekend like a Dog? I told her 'if you want to hangout, you call me' Obviously she didn't call because of the Ego American women have. (guys have to pursue them no matter how they are treated) 2
Shaun-Dro Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 I understand about 100% rejection. But most girls expect guys work around their schedule and treat them like 'hey you are in line, take a number' It's harder to set the appointment with a girl working as a cashier than an attorney. I finally meet them by waiting patiently and for 2nd date, I would have to the same sxit. (discuss when would be good for her, set the date and confirm a day before) I don't like this and usually exit myself out of there. (If I was patient enough, I am sure I would've gotten more pusxy but I didn't give a damn) This bxtch told me this weekend wasn't good for her. Fine, she told me next week, she is busy on following weekend as well. Now should I wait for 3rd weekend like a Dog? I told her 'if you want to hangout, you call me' Obviously she didn't call because of the Ego American women have. (guys have to pursue them no matter how they are treated) That's right yongyong! It's refreshing to hear some comments from real men here because it's rare nowadays. I wouldn't waste my time either and I think the OP is too pussy-hungry where he can't control himself and it's starting to show more with these whining posts. I already gave the OP some sound advice. I'm not asking all men to see an escort, but defnitely the ones that are sexually frustrated ought to do so, no matter what anyone thinks about it. That's why this specialized type of woman is there, and will always be, so get that through your thick skull, Bigkat!
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