wco Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 I met this guy on an online dating site. We talked everyday for about 3 weeks. We couldn't meet right away because I was on vacation, but when I got back we made plans to meet. Through our texting we eventually starting flirting heavy with sexy pictures and dirty talk. We were extremely comfortable and aroused with each other by time we met. We had amazing sex on our first night and I stayed the night with him. That morning he texted me telling how much he enjoyed it, wanted to know when I got home safe and we talked through out the day same as usual. We talked the next day through texting as well. We continued to be playful and just see what each other was doing. By the third day after meeting him, he text me again first thing in the morning, we chatted a bit, he told me he wanted me bad, but has never talked about when he wanted to see me again. Is he still interested??? Should I ask him if he wants to meet up again?? Time is kinda important here because I don't have my daughter at the moment and am free till next Tuesday so I really want to see him before she comes back.....
WeAllMightBeNuts Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 For sex? Yeah, he's interested. Meet and get buck wild.
tivoconga Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 He seems interested to me - if you're concerned about a specific meeting time (when your daughter is away) - just propose a meeting time/day that works for you...done deal.
Author wco Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 I don't know.....I could do the sex thing, because it was awesome. He actually told me the next day I was intense among other things and he was incredible, but I was really hoping for a relationship. I know I shouldn't have slept with him on the first date but come on, it had been 14 months since I've had sex and I wanted it. I was just so comfortable after talking to him for 3 weeks it was like I knew him already. My gut tells me things have changed though. I guess I'll at least give it one more day. If he texts me in the morning like he has every morning maybe it's all in my head......but I sure wouldn't mind having just one more night with him.
Author wco Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 Ok, I haven't heard from him since early this morning and he just texts me that he's locking up the barn because a big storm is about to hit. What am I suppose to do with that????? Uuuugh
Author wco Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 Last night he sends me x's and o's and says goodnight, this morning as usual he says good morning, then small chit chat, but still no when can i see you again???? Somebody please explain to me what he is waiting for!!
Ninjainpajamas Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Just tell him you want him to come over and hump like wild bunnies..that'll get his interest and magically he'll appear to be more interested and available with more time and attention. Just tell him your daughter is away and you're in need of services. But don't expect a relationship, It's nice and all that you hope this will turn into a relationship but that's unrealistic..he's putting in minimum effort after he got what he wanted...so just tell him he can have it again and I'm sure he'll make time in his busy schedule to come on over. You're just a sexual object of fulfillment at this point and all he seems interested judging by his demeanor, lack of interest and contact. If you expect him to change that's your own naivety and wishful thinking, he's done all the things that men do that are just in it for sex, don't play yourself for a fool.
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