demonLord Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Hi guys. I happened to come across this web from google (LOL) So decided to share my feelings/experiences here. So i went out with this person for 3 years. I was the one who initates things most of the time,and we decided to break up once we reached the 3rd year. We did,and it was really rough on me because i still have feelings for her. She told me to move on and forget about her which i cant since she was my first love. And things got worser. Another woman showed up and got close to her until my ex eventually fell for her even though we are struggling to maintain our friendship. Ironically she told me she want to stop having a relationship while she fell for another person. Im really,very lost of what to do,how to move on etc. And i still have to meet her regularly and chances of seeing her "new GF" is quite high. Side info: She's my best friend and we are both girls.
Ruby65 Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 This is why it's NEVER a good idea to stay friends with an ex! You agreed to break up. She told you to move on, moved on herself and found someone new. If you were REALLY just friends, you'd be HAPPY for her that she's found love again! But you're not real friends -- you're not best friends -- you're ex-girlfriends. Her new girlfriend makes you feel hurt and jealous. Cut contact. Stop seeing her and don't put yourself in the position of ever having to spend time with her or her and her new girlfriend. Focus on YOU, your healing, moving on! Feel the sadness, move past it, and find a new love yourself! Why torture yourself -- ??? There's plenty of time to be be friends again when you're BOTH over this relationship and there's no romantic feelings left on either side.
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