meanie_monday Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Lately, I've been feeling confused about the way I feel about my boyfriend. I am beginning to wonder if I have fallen out of love. We have been together for over a year, and I was really head over heels in love with him. He's my best friend and practically my Prince Charming. A couple months ago he broke up with me, and I was devastated. I was a total wreck and cried my eyes out, but about a week later we got back together and I was as happy as could be. Or at least I thought I was. He noticed that now I'm more distant and emotionally unavailable, and I realized he's right. I think the euphoria of us getting back together has worn off, and I realized that things won't ever be the same like pre-break up. He thinks the break up made us "stronger" and that he's now surer than ever that he loves me, but I feel the exact opposite. Now my mind wanders and sometimes I long to be single again, but I'm afraid that if I break up with him, I'll regret it in the long run. He was the perfect (first) boyfriend and I'm scared I won't find another guy like him if I let him go, and I don't want to hurt him because I still care deeply about him. Is it time to move on or do I just try to reignite those feelings once again?
utterer of lies Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Is it time to move on or do I just try to reignite those feelings once again? Move on. You can't force yourself to feel different.
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