an obsessed girl is after my guy!

[icewatermelon]

My boyfriend of 4 years and I are in a long-distance relationship (2 hour plane ride). When he came to visit me last month, he met a girl at the layover <-- she dropped her luggage, my boyfriend helped her, that's how they started talking. My boyfriend works in the business/consulting field and so he gave the girl his business card with the idea of getting a potential client (the girl told him she needed financial consultation or something).

 

The girl calls him, telling my boyfriend she cant afford to pay for his consultation sessions, but she would love to see a movie with him. when my boyfriend said no, she said, "i know you have a girlfriend, but it's JUST a movie! how about coming to my place instead?" she called again before she left, saying, "i just wanted to talk to you before I leave. see you back in town"... as soon as she returned, she called my boyfriend again, and demanded to know why he didnt return her phonecalls.

 

this girl's intentions are beyond obvious. i know she'll never have a chance and my boyfriend isnt even interested, but i am frustrated because she knew from the very beginning my boyfriend is in a relationship! i'm also a bit disappointed at my boyfriend because he didnt believe me when i first told him that this psycho is up to something - if he'd listen, maybe he could've handled this better.

 

my question now is how to put the girl off? i can think of MANY ways, but my boyfriend wants to do this "nicely" because he doesnt want to upset her too much - she sounds depressed, needy, dependent, emotionally unstable, and he worries that she'll do something to him if he rejects her (anyone saw the movie SWIMFAN?)

[StartingAgain]

Stay out of it and let him handle it as he deems best. You trust him and that's all that's important. And he must handle this delicately, since he has a financial consulting business to consider. That's very conservative and he needs to minimize the chance that some psycho-woman will make trouble.