GLDheart Posted July 8, 2012 Posted July 8, 2012 ...i just have to get rid of my negative thoughts that something is wrong with me and that I caused this... Here's a good outlook: "Sometimes in war a good general will lose the battle to win the war." Looking at it that way, Sure she won. Good for her. Really. BUT in the long run YOU WIN THE WAR. You will heal, you are now more mature from this experience, you now know better what you need in a spouse moving forward. YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE better. His broken ass will be seriously jealous and stuck in the past when you have long since moved on to a better life... 1
Author Sweett Posted July 8, 2012 Author Posted July 8, 2012 Here's a good outlook: "Sometimes in war a good general will lose the battle to win the war." Looking at it that way, Sure she won. Good for her. Really. BUT in the long run YOU WIN THE WAR. You will heal, you are now more mature from this experience, you now know better what you need in a spouse moving forward. YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE better. His broken ass will be seriously jealous and stuck in the past when you have long since moved on to a better life... Thanks! This gives me some optimism.
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