Sweett Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Why do people abuse the words I love you!? Why spoil me with gifts, trips, dinners with your family, money, clothes, talk about marriage only to develop a relationship with another while with me and at the end tell me u never loved me!? Why was I so blind? How can someone be so selfish to leave someone they supposedly loved emotionally wounded!?
PainsChains Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Wow, I wish my ex could read this. I was honest with her from the very beginning and told her those words meant a lot to me. I told her I wasn't going to say them until I was ready to propose. She got sick of waiting to hear them and left me for a guy who told her he loved her the first week. I guess the difference is that I actually DID fall in love with her. I told her I would if she allowed me the time to open up. But it didn't happen right away. And by the time it did she'd given up on me. Honestly, I've been seriously considering doing what your boyfriend did the next time around. If I see I could possibly fall in love with a girl, I'm thinking of just straight up telling her I do. Even if it's lying. I thought honesty was the way to go but it got me hurt worse than I've ever been. If a girl needs to hear me say I Love You just to stick around and give me the chance to do so then so be it. I'm in love with this girl now and she left me because she didn't know I was until it was too late for her. Worst feeling ever. And she tells me it's all my fault and how this guy was eager from the beginning just like she was and it's all so perfect because he's not just her best friend but he's her LOVER too. She rubs it in my face actually. She started to date the new guy a week before she broke up with me and within the first 2 months was in talks of moving in with him. 3 months out I'm still in love with this girl and all I have to show for my honest approach is a broken heart. How lovely.
Philosoraptor Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Why do people abuse the words I love you!? Why spoil me with gifts, trips, dinners with your family, money, clothes, talk about marriage only to develop a relationship with another while with me and at the end tell me u never loved me!? Why was I so blind? How can someone be so selfish to leave someone they supposedly loved emotionally wounded!? There is nothing we can do to control the actions of others. Sadly many out there will do things to keep us attached without getting attached themselves. Then when something else comes along we get tossed aside. It's part of a learning experience and hopefully you will learn to watch for negative signs in the future. 3
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