scandicprincess Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 ok, many people struggle with smoking, drugs, alcohol in their dating,. it was been difficult for me because the pain pills and money lost to but all these drugs have taken everything from me,. the rehab is not working and I can't get control of my emotions. have anybody ever struggled with these drug and alcohol addiction. did you ever get off of it
Author scandicprincess Posted July 3, 2012 Author Posted July 3, 2012 has anybody been in relationship where your mate was addicted to drugs or know about a relationship that has
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Yes, I was addicted to drugs and I have been in recovery (NO drugs or alcohol) for well over 20 years. Rehab really doesn't "work." You're the one who has to do all the work. It just helps. My ex husband was clean for over 10 years and then went back. He's basically a street person now. Go to a Narcotic Anonymous meeting, find somebody who has been clean for more than 10 years, and beg them to help you. Be ready to go to a meeting every single day. Do you start all these weird threads with all these different user names because you're that high? This is NOT a dating issue and if you have these problems today, you do NOT need to be dating or thinking about dating. 1
Feelsgoodman Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 (edited) Yes, I was addicted to drugs and I have been in recovery (NO drugs or alcohol) for well over 20 years. Rehab really doesn't "work." You're the one who has to do all the work. It just helps. My ex husband was clean for over 10 years and then went back. He's basically a street person now. Go to a Narcotic Anonymous meeting, find somebody who has been clean for more than 10 years, and beg them to help you. Be ready to go to a meeting every single day. Do you start all these weird threads with all these different user names because you're that high? This is NOT a dating issue and if you have these problems today, you do NOT need to be dating or thinking about dating. Obviously, the OP starts all these threads to amuse himself/herself. I think it's rather unlikely that a moist, dark, ebony nigerian-scandinavian princess who is addicted to drugs and wants to convert to islam so she could date an arab immigrant in Europe is struggling with the moral dilemma of the appropriateness of public displays of affection Having said that, I find your personal experience with drug abuse quite interesting (it must be difficult to share such personal details with others, even on an anonymous message board). It certainly puts some of your views into perspective, in particular your chronic mistrust of men, devotion to radical feminism and general sarcasm and bitterness. It's understandable that someone who has had a difficult life would be susceptible to extreme ideologies. Edited July 4, 2012 by Feelsgoodman
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 Having said that, I find your personal experience with drug abuse quite interesting (it must be difficult to share such personal details with others, even on an anonymous message board). It certainly puts some of your views into perspective, in particular your chronic mistrust of men, devotion to radical feminism and general sarcasm and bitterness. Someone who has had a difficult life is naturally susceptible to radical views, which I guess should not be held against them. You often refer to my distrust of men and radical feminism. I honestly think you must have me mixed up with someone else. I am a great lover of men. I seriously LOVE men, especially my husband. I do self identify as a feminist, but radical? No way. I am not bitter at all and I don't believe I'm capable of bitterness - not even towards my ex husband. Sarcastic? Yes. I don't find it difficult to share about my tarnished past. I do it all the time, if I think it will help someone else. Other people helped me by being honest about their own messed up lives. If people want to trash me because of it, well - I guess that's what they'll do. So even if this thread, like all the rest put out here by this Ebony Scandinavian moist bridge dweller, is just bait - in case it is really in trouble with drugs, I will tell the truth about my life. 1
Author scandicprincess Posted July 4, 2012 Author Posted July 4, 2012 well, pain and suffering from childhood, tough economy, not making enough income for good living standards,and a variety of society stresses has taken its toll. Even though I may not use the pain pills or aspirin everyday, i need them at some point. its hard to avoid all the daily stress, anxiety, and emotional falls. It does not go away and every time I try doing good, people are fighting to get you back down. The rehab programs get you off one drugs, but later, you get addicted to something else. its very challenging. as for dating, the pain pills tolerance has grown and now its becoming harder to get enough to beat all the stress. in addition, they are sucking up my money
Feelsgoodman Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 You often refer to my distrust of men and radical feminism. I honestly think you must have me mixed up with someone else. I am a great lover of men. I seriously LOVE men, especially my husband. I do self identify as a feminist, but radical? No way. I am not bitter at all and I don't believe I'm capable of bitterness - not even towards my ex husband. That's what you say, but the tone of your posts suggests otherwise. You seem to have mellowed out a bit recently but I've read some of your earlier 'material' and it sounded like something that could have come from the mouth of some 60's era second-wave feminist preaching the benefits of universal castration. If you really can't see bitterness towards the male gender in many of your posts, perhaps you need more self-reflection.
Author scandicprincess Posted July 4, 2012 Author Posted July 4, 2012 once you get addicted to drugs, you never really get off. they change and alter your body, hormones, brain, and operation and not all these are perfectly reversible even if stop for a very long time. the reactions they causes are long lasting
Mme. Chaucer Posted July 4, 2012 Posted July 4, 2012 If you really can't see bitterness towards the male gender in many of your posts, perhaps you need more self-reflection. You're probably projecting. I certainly have posted mean, harsh words towards individual men, and made fun of others. If you would like to send me examples, I will consider your perspective. This is threadjacking, though. OP, your use of aspirin, even if it's daily, does not warrant rehab. Just keep on poppin' those pills.
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