WonderKid Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 I also took advice from many on the "Better Yourself" thread to still date even though I'm working on myself. So I took this girl up on it. I met her through a program I went to for a church. We started talking and one of her main problems was being alone every night. So to cure that she would call a hookup. Just for that night. I told her that we should go out instead of her doing such things. She felt bad about doing them. So we went to a movie. She doesn't watch movies much, but she liked it. So the very next day, she was saying how she's bored and craving for a certain food. So we went out to eat at a restaurant. She was all smiles when we were together. She seemed perfectly fine. About an hour later after me being home, I was outside walking to walk off my food, I get a text saying she's alone again. No one is in the house with her. She's gonna call a hookup. I told her I'm free for the night and if you want to hang out again its fine. She says no its okay--but is still spilling to me her feelings about her situation. Like I'm a psychiatrist. I gave her a little bit advice but I am by myself too at night sometimes, and men and women cope differently with that. When all said and done, I just told her she should confide into God and His son or her parents. She has too much pride to talk to her parents. I never heard of such a thing. I told her to get off the phone and call her mom. It's better than calling a guy to come lay up with you. Right? She refused. I said to her, until you tear down your own barriers you'll never evolve. You have to seek more than just one night. She just said she's going to bed and goodnight. I think its contradictory, because she says she doesn't believe in relationships, but, what she is seeking is in relationships. She wanted me to go at some program party today with her. But I'm not going. I think this chick is crazy. "Red Flag" as many of you say here on LS. LOL LOL
manup Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 I also took advice from many on the "Better Yourself" thread to still date even though I'm working on myself. So I took this girl up on it. I met her through a program I went to for a church. We started talking and one of her main problems was being alone every night. So to cure that she would call a hookup. Just for that night. I told her that we should go out instead of her doing such things. She felt bad about doing them. So we went to a movie. She doesn't watch movies much, but she liked it. So the very next day, she was saying how she's bored and craving for a certain food. So we went out to eat at a restaurant. She was all smiles when we were together. She seemed perfectly fine. About an hour later after me being home, I was outside walking to walk off my food, I get a text saying she's alone again. No one is in the house with her. She's gonna call a hookup. I told her I'm free for the night and if you want to hang out again its fine. She says no its okay--but is still spilling to me her feelings about her situation. Like I'm a psychiatrist. I gave her a little bit advice but I am by myself too at night sometimes, and men and women cope differently with that. When all said and done, I just told her she should confide into God and His son or her parents. She has too much pride to talk to her parents. I never heard of such a thing. I told her to get off the phone and call her mom. It's better than calling a guy to come lay up with you. Right? She refused. I said to her, until you tear down your own barriers you'll never evolve. You have to seek more than just one night. She just said she's going to bed and goodnight. I think its contradictory, because she says she doesn't believe in relationships, but, what she is seeking is in relationships. She wanted me to go at some program party today with her. But I'm not going. I think this chick is crazy. "Red Flag" as many of you say here on LS. LOL LOL What do you mean by hookup?
Author WonderKid Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 Idk honestly its the first time I heard the term too, but I think she means just calling a guy and they ****, hangout and stuff. Much more like it.
FitChick Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 She sounds like a boring person if she can't think of anything else to do but have sex with strangers. Tell her to move into an apartment or house with housemates if she doesn't want to be alone. Maybe read a book once in a while. 1
Author WonderKid Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 ^^^ FitChick I wish I could post every text on here. She is quite boring. But when you're with her she is all smiles and stuff. She HAS roommates but doesn't even converse with them. And she's not a book person or she supposedly doesn't watch TV. But hey that's her life. It seems like if she doesn't get laid for the night her entire day, life is ruined.
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