BetrayedH Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 You also need to go back and read Owl's post again. Boundaries and consequences, my friend.
2sunny Posted July 28, 2012 Posted July 28, 2012 She's never attempted to earn your trust. It will never be YOUR fault that she didn't earn trust and decided to go behind your back! Stop making any effort for her cheating ways. It's over the minute you have to beg someone to be with you.
Author HateFaceBook Posted July 31, 2012 Author Posted July 31, 2012 Well I resigned myself to the fact I'm in for a very long wait or that the marriage is over. I'm trying to move on and doing ok, most relaxed 2 days I've had in the last month. I don't contact her for 2 days, spent the day with my daughter (16yo from a previous relationship) watch movies and getting my but kicked on the wii and then I get this text message "Sorry I know I wasnt going to contact you i am worried about u... and I just want to know your ok" I answer and tell her I'm fine and just spent the day playing games and watching movies with my daughter. I tell her i wanted to text and phone her but I'm trying to respect her space and and give her the time she needs. She tells me to have fun, I say thanks, she says I should win wii bowling but I don't answer after that. her sending me that text has I think just givin me false hope and put me back to square 1
2sunny Posted August 1, 2012 Posted August 1, 2012 Well I resigned myself to the fact I'm in for a very long wait or that the marriage is over. I'm trying to move on and doing ok, most relaxed 2 days I've had in the last month. I don't contact her for 2 days, spent the day with my daughter (16yo from a previous relationship) watch movies and getting my but kicked on the wii and then I get this text message "Sorry I know I wasnt going to contact you i am worried about u... and I just want to know your ok" I answer and tell her I'm fine and just spent the day playing games and watching movies with my daughter. I tell her i wanted to text and phone her but I'm trying to respect her space and and give her the time she needs. She tells me to have fun, I say thanks, she says I should win wii bowling but I don't answer after that. her sending me that text has I think just givin me false hope and put me back to square 1 YOU are ALOWING her to manipulate and control you... Just by responding to her. Who cares if she's "wondering" about anything! She's the gal that betrayed you! Stop communicating at all! She's an attention whore and just gets nervous when several men aren't paying attention to her! She's a dork. She's the kind of gal that doesn't deserve another second of your thought! Get busy living by MOVING FORWARD. I'd serve her D papers as quickly as you can.
JD1977 Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 You keep talking about getting her back..... And then what? She has proven to you time and time again that she has no problem starting something with other guys and lying to you about it. What do you expect to happen even if she comes back? Just because you both are unhappy without each other doesn't mean you will be happy with each other. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life tracking down her social media and phone text/messages? You have to just keep your head down and power through the all the crap till it gets better. And it will get better. I am in the middle of this with my husband now, but it is much easier to give good advice rather than follow it! I know!
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