Alfie352 Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Hi, my ex broke up with me a few weeks ago now. We wernt together for very long but I did live with him. Turns out he broke up with me cause he cheated on me with some random at a party. After the break up we kinda got back together and said we would try to take things slow. But tonight he chucked a tantrum and accused me of logging into his facebook etc. We had met up last night and had a great night with great intimacy.. But when i asked if he even enjoyed any of it he it he said no. I told him he was good at hurting people and he only said yup. These where the sort of responses i was getting and it was so blunt and emotionless. What changed so much? I feel like the person he was yesterday is gone or i have done something terrible. Just need some opinions on this..
Billie Holiday Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 He's trying to push you away without actually having to break up with you again. He's acting like jerk. A friend of mine was in the same situation, he kept acting like a jerk but was too chicken to actually end it, but did so eventually, because she kept taking his bullsh*t. And it turned out he cheated on her multiple times. So leave him before you get hurt evenmore!
Samilia Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 (edited) Hi, my ex broke up with me a few weeks ago now. We wernt together for very long but I did live with him. Turns out he broke up with me cause he cheated on me with some random at a party. After the break up we kinda got back together and said we would try to take things slow. But tonight he chucked a tantrum and accused me of logging into his facebook etc. We had met up last night and had a great night with great intimacy.. But when i asked if he even enjoyed any of it he it he said no. I told him he was good at hurting people and he only said yup. These where the sort of responses i was getting and it was so blunt and emotionless. What changed so much? I feel like the person he was yesterday is gone or i have done something terrible. Just need some opinions on this.. uhm? He's a jerk and a cheater and you should really stop "remembering" the person that he's not. Let's be clear, at first everything is good, it is the person that comes out once routine is established that you should be in love with. Don't try and make sense of it all, it really isn't you, it really is him, the real him, may I add. Edited July 3, 2012 by Samilia
flitzanu Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Hi, my ex broke up with me a few weeks ago now. We wernt together for very long but I did live with him. Turns out he broke up with me cause he cheated on me with some random at a party. After the break up we kinda got back together and said we would try to take things slow. But tonight he chucked a tantrum and accused me of logging into his facebook etc. We had met up last night and had a great night with great intimacy.. But when i asked if he even enjoyed any of it he it he said no. I told him he was good at hurting people and he only said yup. These where the sort of responses i was getting and it was so blunt and emotionless. What changed so much? I feel like the person he was yesterday is gone or i have done something terrible. Just need some opinions on this.. yeah, boyfriends that cheat are certainly awesome.
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