Lets see how this fourm works.. Need or just someone to talk to.

[Fractured]

The last 7 Months, I've been living with my boyfriend. It was all good at first the past couple months however we've been fighting bad. Things would be really good then, go really bad. Let me explain the last fight because I don't want to drag you guys through everything lol. I'll just explain the last one.

 

Long story short: Thursday he gets home from work. We start talking about moving in with his sister. We get in a little fight and I make a comment like, "Wow, I'm cant believe I have to move in with YOU & YOUR SISTER, GREAT!" Then he responds, "YOU don't have to do ANYTHING" Then the fight got worse. He ended up dropping me off at my aunts.The whole car ride there we were just talking **** to eachother. He lets me out, I'm walking. Then he proceeds to drive next to me calling me a, "Skank Ho" Publicly humilitaing me like he always does. Funny he calls me that knowing I've never cheated on him.

 

So it's whatever. Come Friday, I still don't hear from him. I decide to party. So i'm looking for my friend Sara's number. I find this #, with no name so I assumed it was hers. SWEAR TO GOD. Anyways, it turns out to be my Ex Boyfriends friend. Who I've met a few times. Not my type at all. We start talking and he invited me to a party. He said, just because I broke up with his friend didn't mean that WE coulden't be friends. I'm like ok i'll call you back in an hour we'll figure this out. I call back and my ex anwsers! Calling me every ****ing name in the book, telling me he's cheated on me many times and all this hurtful stuff. I hang up and end up getting drunk with my friend Daisy. I go home at like 1AM, really really drunk now. All I wanted was someone to cuddle with untill I fell asleep, so of course my dumbass calls HIM. He cusses me out and hangs up before I can get a word in. I call probably 25 times, just to get forwarded to Voicemail and ended up crying myself to sleep, woke up with my face in chicken pot pie lol. I was a mess.

 

Now he's all I have been thinking about. I miss my home, I miss cuddiling with him, I miss everything. I feel alone and no one cares for me. I'm lost. What do I do? Should I make him jelous? Should I call him, or text him on Wends? Or should I wait for him to hit me up?

 

I dont even KNOW if I want him back.. I feel like he doesnt love me. I dont know if this is just heartbreak, or not having closure to really end the relationship. What do you think? What would you do honestly? Thank you in advance for reading all that

[Samilia]

The last 7 Months, I've been living with my boyfriend. It was all good at first the past couple months however we've been fighting bad. Things would be really good then, go really bad. Let me explain the last fight because I don't want to drag you guys through everything lol. I'll just explain the last one.

 

Long story short: Thursday he gets home from work. We start talking about moving in with his sister. We get in a little fight and I make a comment like, "Wow, I'm cant believe I have to move in with YOU & YOUR SISTER, GREAT!" Then he responds, "YOU don't have to do ANYTHING" Then the fight got worse. He ended up dropping me off at my aunts.The whole car ride there we were just talking **** to eachother. He lets me out, I'm walking. Then he proceeds to drive next to me calling me a, "Skank Ho" Publicly humilitaing me like he always does. Funny he calls me that knowing I've never cheated on him.

 

So it's whatever. Come Friday, I still don't hear from him. I decide to party. So i'm looking for my friend Sara's number. I find this #, with no name so I assumed it was hers. SWEAR TO GOD. Anyways, it turns out to be my Ex Boyfriends friend. Who I've met a few times. Not my type at all. We start talking and he invited me to a party. He said, just because I broke up with his friend didn't mean that WE coulden't be friends. I'm like ok i'll call you back in an hour we'll figure this out. I call back and my ex anwsers! Calling me every ****ing name in the book, telling me he's cheated on me many times and all this hurtful stuff. I hang up and end up getting drunk with my friend Daisy. I go home at like 1AM, really really drunk now. All I wanted was someone to cuddle with untill I fell asleep, so of course my dumbass calls HIM. He cusses me out and hangs up before I can get a word in. I call probably 25 times, just to get forwarded to Voicemail and ended up crying myself to sleep, woke up with my face in chicken pot pie lol. I was a mess.

 

Now he's all I have been thinking about. I miss my home, I miss cuddiling with him, I miss everything. I feel alone and no one cares for me. I'm lost. What do I do? Should I make him jelous? Should I call him, or text him on Wends? Or should I wait for him to hit me up?

 

I dont even KNOW if I want him back.. I feel like he doesnt love me. I dont know if this is just heartbreak, or not having closure to really end the relationship. What do you think? What would you do honestly? Thank you in advance for reading all that

 

That seems like a lot of drama you don't need. I would drop the whole thing like a rock, without a regret.

[BlazePT]

"Let's see how this forum works" ...? What are you, testing us?!

 

*Sigh*... Anyway, I agree with Samilia on that one. You guys need to back off from each other. There's too much fighting and name-calling and that's really toxic. If he had some respect for you and some maturity, he wouldn't be calling you names and saying that he cheated on you. That's really low.

 

Back off. Stay with No Contact for as long as it takes and don't expect to get back with him.

 

Post here whenever you need to

 

Cheers!