Author Nessienu Posted July 3, 2012 Author Posted July 3, 2012 SomedayDig, I really appreciate your feedback, but like I said, while it may sound stereotypical, these are all real to me. I have lived with him for 4-years and I know what I see and what I hear. I'm not just basing this on his use of loofah or his choice of television viewing. Any other thoughts of wisdom and insight are much appreciated! 1
SomedayDig Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 My apologies, I was trying to add a bit of levity to a drastic sounding situation. Seriously though, there are bunches of red flags and the only way you're going to get true information is through the PI. Other than that, I guess I would also be quite curious as to what he's hiding behind every single encryption.
GLDheart Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 So two problems then. 1. He may be having an affair.... And, 2. He may also be Gay. Either one of those alone could be deal breakers.
Steen719 Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 I have a nagging suspicion about his sexual orientation for various reasons, and I realize that some, if not all, may seem stereotypical, but this is all real to me. My husband has very effiminent ways; his mannerism. We dated for 3 years before marriage and I thought he was a caring and gentle man; which he is. But he is too gentle, to the point that he allows people to push him around. He doesn't stand up for himself. I also have to fight the battles for the family. I always joke, that if a burglar broke in, I would have to act as the defender. A couple of years ago, he started using loofah's, pumice stones, facial scrubs, etc. He takes much longer to get ready than I do. He dance moves are uncomfortably feminine; he favorite shows are "Will and Grace" and "The Golden Girls". He constantly comments on how "good looking" a man is. We went out to dinner a few weeks ago, and our waiter was handsome; my husband couldn't take his eyes off of him. He commented "he's good looking". Over the past year, he has made several new male friends. I haven't meet any of them. Those are just a few. Hey Ness, As a woman, I want to say that I think you have every right to think that he may be gay. I'm sorry, but I think you are right in your assessment. Good luck...find out. It isn't the life you want if he is gay.
stillafool Posted July 3, 2012 Posted July 3, 2012 Yeah, sounds like he is gay. Wow OP, what are you going to do?
dreamingoftigers Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Have you plugged the email into Facebook or pipl.com LinkedIn might have a profile too. 1
Alban Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Go with your gut. Only a gay man would want to have 5-7 phone conversations with his wife every day. LMFAO...You made my day
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