Super Akin Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 So I've been together with my long distance gf for almost 7 months now and it's been pretty good though she's been busy with work placement lately. I'm sorta scared by the fact 7 months in she still won't make our relationship public. I'm scared she could be using me =[, when I brought this up to her she told me that there's no way she'd do that to me as well the fact she has not the energy nor the time. However I'd easily make our relationship public but she states that she can't due to to strict parents (although she is 22 and almost done with college) and says she wants to meet me before we make it public. She won't even make an "in a relationship status" though her relationship status is hidden it'd still make me feel like I exist. What should I do?
january2011 Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 She's already set the conditions: you need to meet first. I think that's reasonable. Especially if she is reliant on her parents to support her, financially and emotionally. When she is an independent adult with her own income and living space, she'll have more control over her life choices. However, if you don't find it reasonable and she's not willing to compromie, then you need to decide whether or not it's a big enough dealbreaker for you to justify ending the relationship. If you accept her condition of meeting in-person, then you both need to agree a plan to work towards this. 2
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