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They say you are the company you keep. With that said, no I do not :laugh: I have one female friend and we're very deep people.

 

I had high hopes for one girl but she was so corrupted by her friends that I let her go. I am much more selective with whom I choose to be friends now then when I was younger.

 

I do think today people are more shallow than ever before.

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No woman would ever do that. :laugh: This level of shallowness can only be found in men.

Wish that were true but women are the usual culprit for this type of shallow behavior.

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Wish that were true but women are the usual culprit for this type of shallow behavior.

 

So you're back trolling? Sad life you have there.

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So you're back trolling?

Disagreement isn't trolling.

 

Sad life you have there.

But this is.

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I have both buy friends and some girls I know who are shallow and still to this day are single and alone. My guy friend only wanted girls with long hair and money. I can't stress that long hair thing enough. No matter how good she looked, if the hair wasn't right he would not do it.

And she had to have money. He could get the girls but it never worked out.

 

But there's actually another girl I know, my cousin. If a guy didn't even "look" like he had money and a ripped body she wouldn't give them a chance of day. But one day she met a guy who average. Had a job, no car, made okay money. Idk what it was but 2 yrs later they are still together.

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I have both buy friends and some girls I know who are shallow and still to this day are single and alone. My guy friend only wanted girls with long hair and money. I can't stress that long hair thing enough. No matter how good she looked, if the hair wasn't right he would not do it.

And she had to have money. He could get the girls but it never worked out.

 

But there's actually another girl I know, my cousin. If a guy didn't even "look" like he had money and a ripped body she wouldn't give them a chance of day. But one day she met a guy who average. Had a job, no car, made okay money. Idk what it was but 2 yrs later they are still together.

Real human attraction isn't based on a checklist. That's why good on paper relationships with good on paper spouses fail.

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They didn't have one. They were already sleeping together before the wedding, so she knew what she was getting into and it wasn't going to be a marriage of love and great sex. It was going to be a marriage of nice houses, nice cars, pots of money in the bank and children who would be privately educated.

 

This makes me sad for the human race. Both using each other for mutual gain...it's a hard pill to swallow.

 

I don't even want to think what'll happen if the guy loses his job or doesn't have the same job to maintain the same lifestyle they both have.

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No woman would ever do that. :laugh: This level of shallowness can only be found in men.

 

That is because a man can't change whether or not he is short while a woman can change her hair. Women might be shallow in different ways but just as shallow. Also most of us thought he was out of his mind because she was a good woman.

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If you stop comparing yourself to others, you will be happier.

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This makes me sad for the human race. Both using each other for mutual gain...it's a hard pill to swallow.

 

I don't even want to think what'll happen if the guy loses his job or doesn't have the same job to maintain the same lifestyle they both have.

 

They've saved enough so that they can live fairly comfortably for the rest of their lives and still be able to provide for their kids. However, they'd be at each other throats if they had to remain under the same roof day in and day out.

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This is why I will never let myself get stuck in that provider role. When a woman doesn't need your money is when you see if she really loves you or not.

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They've saved enough so that they can live fairly comfortably for the rest of their lives and still be able to provide for their kids. However, they'd be at each other throats if they had to remain under the same roof day in and day out.

 

I'm pretty sure if she is attractive she is going to cheat on him.

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I had high hopes for one girl but she was so corrupted by her friends that I let her go. I am much more selective with whom I choose to be friends now then when I was younger.

 

I do think today people are more shallow than ever before.

 

Hmm, that's the thing, the girl whom I'm friends with doesn't allow herself to become corrupted by the things that corrupt most. It really is rare to find a good female friend, who can think for herself and assess a situation. E.g (True story)- Her friends see an "attractive" (subjective) girl with an "unattractive" boy. They say "She is so out of his league". My friend says "Why? because she was born more conventionally attractive? why don't you take into account their levels of intellect". I swear, I fill up with pride every time I think about it. Didn't think women like this still existed :laugh:

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