supermanthatho Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 I feel like im in a hopeless situation. What can i do get her back? Whats the trick with making them come crawling back to you?
Phanpooh Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 What make you think that if she back, she dun dump you again?
Charlie25 Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 I feel like im in a hopeless situation. What can i do get her back? Whats the trick with making them come crawling back to you? There is no such thing as a blue-print, and its not a sure thing, but i think there are some golden rules. 1. A period of NC/LC/NIC, around 4-8 weeks, maybe longer. Some "experts" claim you should wait for them to contact you, others not. 2. Figure out if its worth it, and if there is any hope 3. Make a "plan" and stick to it, don't let your emotions get the better of you 4. Get busy and "improve" yourself, try to fill in the blanks that led to the demise of the relationships 5. When you get in contact with the ex. Be happy and cheerfull, do your best to make all your interactions positive. Never make them feel guilty for dumping you. Never discuss the RS or the BU unless they bring it up 6. When you feel the time is right, ask them to meet up. Look your best and try and be the person they fell in love with in the first place, just maybe that spark will come back 7. Treat your physical interactions like a date with someone you just met and you really like. Be fun, flirty and awesome 8. NEVER ask for a second chance, they will think you tried to manipulate them (and you did in a way). Especially girls can sniff out that stuff right away. Your job is to make them ask YOU for a second chance And most importantly, don't get to hopeful and don't try to rush things, they have to unfold naturally
Tiera D Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 moving on seemed to have a hypnotic power to get most ex come crawling back.let me give you the key equation NC+moving on=getting back an ex/you become happy and normal again TD
Phanpooh Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 At begin, i want she back Then im confused After all, i hope she dun get back because i dun know how to deal with it And now, i just want to sit here, waiting for anyone come and take me 1
Mariana345 Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 There is no such thing as a blue-print, and its not a sure thing, but i think there are some golden rules. 1. A period of NC/LC/NIC, around 4-8 weeks, maybe longer. Some "experts" claim you should wait for them to contact you, others not. 2. Figure out if its worth it, and if there is any hope 3. Make a "plan" and stick to it, don't let your emotions get the better of you 4. Get busy and "improve" yourself, try to fill in the blanks that led to the demise of the relationships 5. When you get in contact with the ex. Be happy and cheerfull, do your best to make all your interactions positive. Never make them feel guilty for dumping you. Never discuss the RS or the BU unless they bring it up 6. When you feel the time is right, ask them to meet up. Look your best and try and be the person they fell in love with in the first place, just maybe that spark will come back 7. Treat your physical interactions like a date with someone you just met and you really like. Be fun, flirty and awesome 8. NEVER ask for a second chance, they will think you tried to manipulate them (and you did in a way). Especially girls can sniff out that stuff right away. Your job is to make them ask YOU for a second chance And most importantly, don't get to hopeful and don't try to rush things, they have to unfold naturally I agree with this. Even if he/she doesn't come back, still is the best thing to do... NC is a b**** (XD) but is the best thing to do...
BlazePT Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 moving on seemed to have a hypnotic power to get most ex come crawling back.let me give you the key equation NC+moving on=getting back an ex/you become happy and normal again TD I second this. Well put
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